Ok. Ive been given a very important mission.

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  1. antihero

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    Ok, so I have been given a challenge that I intend to win.

    Girl I'm with has never had a orgasm from sex alone. Last week her sister who had previously been worse off figured out how to have them. Now she is commited to making this happen. :rofl: I am the lucky beneficiary of all the trying.... I need every suggestion OT can think of for making this happen.

    Here is the thing, it takes me 20+ minutes minimum to get this girl off via oral. Thats a loooooong ass time for a bare minimum to orgasm, so I'm guessing the sex is going to have to be marathon too.

    things im going to try:

    pillows under the small of the back to elevate/angle the pelvis
    extremely slow sex
    making he hold her breath when she gets close
    getting her drunk (shes typically a 2 drink a night max drinker)
    lifestyles excite sensitizing lube
    cervical massage
    blindfold


    honestly, i really don't think its all in her head. i honestly think this has to do with needing to do just the right thing for a looooong time. Even with sex + her using a vibrator it takes quite a while. Ok, ladies and gents, what else should I try?
     
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  2. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    So you have used a vibrator on her clit while you were inside of her?
     
  3. antihero

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    yes. it works but still takes a LONG time and this is with her using her vibrator. Thats not a win though. The whole thing is she now believes its possible and wants to have one from just sex with no vibe. I think its possible too. I think its going to be hard as hell though just based on how long she takes with the things which do work already.
     
  4. D7

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    can she get off from a dildo?
     
  5. antihero

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    vibrator on clit, yes. oral, yes. dildo, i very seriously doubt it. I could ask, but id bet 99.99 there is no chance a dildo would do enough for her
     
  6. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    Bummer.

    I take for fucking ever to orgasm usually, but when I do it's massive. I wish IO could have a bunch of small one's like a lot of girls do :sad2: It's easily 15-20 and takes precise steps. Unfortunately, none of the ideas you originally have made it more simple for me :hs: so I'm no more help....
     
  7. antihero

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    I seriously doubt that. from what ive seen, the big ones look incredible. Well worth the wait compared to the little ones. I would feel lucky to be physically and mentally capable of big ones and have figured out how and call it a win.

    what are the precise steps that work for you?
     
  8. freckleface

    freckleface expose the raw nerve and get on with our lives...

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    what works for me:

    after much 4 play making sure you play with her clit. Get her very wet with some type of lube. insert your cock depending on the size of it would depend on how far to go. She my not know. slowly back and forth while kissing and rubbing. I at this point want him to give it all to me but do not keep doing what you are doing until you feel it :)



    G-spot
     
  9. antihero

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    what positions does this work for you in?
     
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    freckleface expose the raw nerve and get on with our lives...

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    HIm on top with or with out a pillow.


    Always doggie syle:bowdown:


    oh and when he has me spooned...great for wake up sex.
     
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  11. Lucky Penny

    Lucky Penny Mr. cut me some slack cause I don't wanna go back,

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    All vag orgasm with no clit stimulation takes about 10 minutes for me but only if I'm on top. It happened on bottom once but we call that the leprechaun orgasm cause we're sure to never see that ever again :rofl:

    Has she tried just riding it out?
     
  12. antihero

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    absolutely. will definitely try again. Previously she was just kind of resigned that it wasnt going to happen for her, but now shes committed and optimistic.
     
  13. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    :hs: I should be happy with what I get, I just wish it didn't take me so long :( even on my own it's 15 minutes minimum :sad2:

    but let me think...doggy works :bowdown: for me. If not in doggy the other best position is on my back with my legs pushed up towards my head. Though, it has a lot to do with the lifting, re-positioning and lowering of the legs; the variety makes a huge difference for me :dunno: Slow also doesn't work. :mamoru: I joke that we never "make love" because I O the best when it's really hard (thrusts). Other than that it seems to just take time, I wsh I could be more help :hs:

    Did her sister tell hr what was different for her??
    :rofl: @ leprachaun

    I can almost never O on top :wtc:
     
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    I wouldn't get her drunk. I think it's harder to cum when you've been drinking because it's a depressant.

    A good position would be her on top, sitting up all the way. Have her lean back a little and/or arch her back. That should hit the G-spot. Thrust your dick up a little bit so that it's a tad deeper. Make sure to give her a lot of foreplay before sex too.
     
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    I would agree in this case. I think if the problem is in the girls head, booze can help. I don't think thats the issue here, but hey, its an option.
     
  16. Ford4Life

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    On her stomach, legs together, with a pillow under her pelvis to raise her ass in the air a little bit. Has worked on nearly every chick I've been with.
     
  17. antihero

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    really... thats like one of my favorites, but its not been overly successful with the ladies for me.
     
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    Choke her. Or:whip: Keep it light though. She may like it. Do you talk dirty?
     
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    already do choke her she definitely does like it.

    Talking dirty has proven a bit tough. Shes doesn't even swear, so ive been a bit hesitant to get raunchy
     
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    I hate it when a girl takes forever to cum and needs a specific sequence of things to be done. sex should be wild and spontaneous, not methodical. that's what I'm really fuckin glad that the girl I'm with comes from intercourse pretty easily.
     
  21. antihero

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    yeah, me too... it would definitely be an improvement over not cumming from intercourse at all though
     
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    for sure. I've just been there too many times.
     
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    damn i can orgasm in like 2 minutes and over and over again.. i feel sorry for y'all.. i couldn't imagine :hs:




    ...really. i feel sorry.
     
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    Put her legs up on your shoulders, better angle for the gspot ;)
     
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    The bolded. My ex/current FB can literally got 5-6 times in a row cause she knows the 'perfect' position now, its :drool:
     

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