I normally don't seek out advice... but I'm at the point of a mental breakdown, and need help. I'll try to keep this as short as possible. Story: Problems with the gf. We started off as best friends 11+ years ago, and 7 years ago began seeing each other. Not much to explain over the last 7 years, because they have been great, no problems whatsoever. However recently she started a job as an independant financial advisor with her brother, and has been working this job literally from 8am to 11pm, 7 days a week to try to have it take off. So here is where problems began, because i've been seeing her less and less, to a point that I raarely saw her. So problems arose, that I voiced she could at least call, or see me when she could... which she did.. however it was still hard. Couple weeks ago, we got into that argument again, that i needed the time, and i felt like she wasn't even making an effort. Her response, was that she has to focus on her job 100% now, and that she really can't be distracted from it for her relationship. So it ended... just like that. Fast forward to today. I see her pop up on IM, i msg her hello. Eventually she does talk... and I soon come to learn that she no longer can see me, and no longer wants to be friends right now until she can get over her feelings for me. So in a nutshell, she doesn't want to be or even think about a relationship right now until she's successful in her career. So shes slowly trying to destroy her feelings for me because of this. And she (the normal answer) told me she doesn't want me to just sit around and wait for her because she feels bad for that. Since she doesn't want to see me in person, the only contact i have will be a phone call with her tonight.... What can i do? I never had a problem waiting, because i understand thats her job and she needs to get things done... however for us to throw everything we built up for, and our future together over miscommunication is tough... ANY help before my phone call tonight would be massively helpful.