ok i just started to date this girl...

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  1. 1sagain

    1sagain New Member

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    we wnet on a first date on sunday and had a good time like 6 hours...and at the end she asks for my number and stuff...so monday i don't call her...but tuesday i do..since she didn't call. and its all good n stuff. and wed. samething i end up calling her...thursday i didn't call or anythning to see if she would.she didn't...today we went out on a date and i called her to see what time she wanted to go...we went to dinner n stuff and she had to go early cuz her family from outta state was here...

    and i was a about to give her a hug then she moves away laughing and goin kekekekeke n stuff...

    i'm goin crazy over her...
    i wish i knew how she felt. :hs:
     
  2. fighted

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    either she's very immature or is not into you, was she even aware these were dates or could she possibly think you were just friends hanging out? next time you go out w/ her make a move, any move that shows interest and she can not misread (a hug does not count)
     
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    you sound needy man. i suggest you back off a bit. be a bit of a challenge. i know its hard to wait for a girl to call you, but you should at least try to have her call you back. have her bug you, instead of you bugging her. you are in danger of being friend zoned.


    about your first date... how were the vibes between you two? did you take things to the next level or what? did you build some attraction for her?
     
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    on the first date it was pretty good. we were constantly talking and joking around n stuff. usually i can like wait calling a girl but she i just love her like personality goin crazy~~~
     
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    seh knew these were dates i guess..i mean dinner, go out for a drink, karaoke :)hsugh:), and pool, and a movie...i don't think if i was just a friend she woudl do all that on a first date right?
     
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    quit calling so fucking much and wait and dont call to see if she even has enough interest to call you
     
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    1. Call her ONLY to set up a date.
    2. Do not wait for her to call you.
    3. Do not ask HER what she wants to do - YOU must make the decision - YOU must make the date.
    4. If she backed off from you, she is not into you. I'd have tossed her number right after that. If she liked you for more than a free meal, she would have been fine with the hug, and more.

    You're done here.
     
  8. T-R-T

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    is she asian?
     
  9. 1sagain

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    korean fob
     
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    this is always what i say to others in this situation...but like the sayin goes

    easier said than done
     
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    well the i asked my fob friends about this and they said that fobs don't hug or kiss or anything teh first few dates
     
  12. hyukki

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    I think that issue sorely lies on the girls. There should be some exceptions.
     
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    its like shes fucking playing games, wtf
     
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    Sounds like you are going to have to lower your standards? Why would you want to do that? What other surprises are going to come along? :dunno:
     
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    she didn't text me back or calll back yesterday so i don't even know any more :squint:
     
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    Go cold on her for at least a week. It's hard, but you have to do it.

    Then text her something along the lines of...

    "Hey cutie, how have you been? I've been so busy lately! Let's get some dinner this week"
     
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    thats what im' plannin to do this week.
     
  18. T-R-T

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    just keep pursuing her and it will work out in the end
     
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    i don'to know if ur bein serious or not
     
  20. Abomb

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    lol? :hsugh:
     
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    Um, no, he's being sarcastic. That's the #1 way to turn a woman OFF.

    I'd go cold for a week, then ask her on a DATE using the word DATE. Make her wonder what is going on.
     
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    i don't get her....stlil noword from her since saturday ㅠ_ㅠ
     
  23. T-R-T

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    i was being serious.

    don't be a little bitch about it calling her everyday but dont just give up if she doesnt return your call. wait till the weekend and call her then.
     
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    i can hear ushers greatest hits goin thru my head.

    u got it bad
     
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    WHAT?!?!?! Girls playing games?!?!??!!? UMPOSSIBLE!??!?!?! :mamoru:
     

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