ok gf kissed another guy.......

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  1. kkakckk

    kkakckk Guest

    she kissed a guy that I told her to stay away from. When she told me she was all crying on my bed for like 1 hour and then wrote me a note and then left. she didn't even have the guts to tell me. now past 2 days she is telling me how sorry she is and how I am better off w/o her, and she is going to fucking kill herself so she won't be a bother other ppl in her life. which made me feel fucking bad. I know I should move on, but there is this lil lil bit inside me that want her back. I have been with her for more then years.......

    what should I do?
     
  2. CrimsonVonDoom

    CrimsonVonDoom There Cannot be Two Skies OT Supporter

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    she wants you to hate her so she has an excuse to be with that guy without feeling guilty.
     
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    bmorrell SoCal > *

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  4. donson

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    didnt seem like she was bothering the other guy when she kissed him. once a cheater always a cheater. leave her before you get hurt more
     
  5. Hunter Michaels

    Hunter Michaels The Real American Gigolo

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    let her go
     
  6. 1BadZ

    1BadZ Uber :Aug2000: GM Nazi

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    Her -------------> Curb.
     
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    she's done with you. the only thing she wants you around for is the security blanket. boost man
     
  8. lauren

    lauren Active Member

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    how old are you, how long have you been going out?

    if you are under 20yo, and/or have been dating for less than a year, i say move on. if you are over 20 and been dating more than a year, you might want to try to work it out.
     
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    Bruticus half dead OT Supporter

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    Yeh seems like she wants you around to lean on when she needs, but wants to move on otherwise. Playing that kill herself guilt card is pretty fucking low too.
     
  10. Coco Monkey

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    what should you do?


    dont date girls in highschool first off.
     
  11. RedVsBlue

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    She is even trying the guilt shit, and the kill herself shit. Do you really want to stick around with an immature emo cheating bitch?
     
  12. RedVsBlue

    RedVsBlue Penguins > *

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    That would take into consideration that he's not in HS. I think half the people in here are really in middle school anyways with some of the things that are asked. :rofl:
     
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    seriously. same shit, same drama. ugh...
     
  14. BiffHenderson

    BiffHenderson New Member

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    Yep
     
  15. Jaccordan

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    let the stupid bitch kill herself......
     
  16. AstroGirl

    AstroGirl If I don't respond it's because I have severe ADD

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    Let her go, once a cheater always a cheater imo.
     
  17. AmCo

    AmCo Haters goin' Hate

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    let it burn :).
     
  18. React

    React Still Strong

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    cheat = curb

    ALWAYS
     
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    dawt * 50
     
  20. martini

    martini Orgasm Donor

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    from experience... dump it. it can only get worse from here.

    The suicide line is the killer. If she is as immature and selfish as she seems, she will use that line when you want to break up with her. I call it keeping you an "emotional hostage".

    If you really think she's suicidal. Get her some help, and wash your hands of the whole situation. you don't need that responsibility.
     
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    The Kurtis Yes........The

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  22. dementedmonkey

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    Just walk away, because once she starts kissing other guys, it'll lead to a game of hide the sausage. Believe me. Its happened to me and countless others. How long you've been with her doesn't matter, I was with my gf for over 6 years. Time doesn't mean shit.
     
  23. JordanClarkson

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    You know what's funny? She probably feels worse about realizing that she's capable of cheating than she is about how much she hurt you. If a girl makes a big deal over this, it means there is going to be more cheating to come. Her "confession" sadly puts the ball in your court. If you decide to stick with her and she cheats on you again, it's easy for her because it was your fault since you knew she was a cheater. I mean that's what goes on through her mind subconsciously. She's not evil, it's just her survival instincts.
     
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    ReddVsBlue is always harsh but he speaks the truth.

    Punch her in throat then drop her like a bad habit.
     
  25. Hunter Michaels

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