SRS Oh dear. How confusing. (help me out, girls)

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  1. Drunkenmarauder

    Drunkenmarauder New Member

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    I am dumbfounded. I canNOT understand what is going on!!! This has happened before, and when I asked why, I never got a straight answer. Is there some sort of a chain reaction that commences shortly after one person decides that they're pissed at you?!?!? Oh agoneeeeeeey and painstaking confusion.

    Ok. I'm just curious. But here's what happened once in the past, and what happened most recently.
    Past:: Summer- Having fun. I like to carry myself generally as a somewhat obnoxious humerous person, though that can only be judged by those around me. Being concise, I'll tell you that I had met a girl that I joked around with a lot. Then, for no reason at all, she decides to completely ignore me (I'm thinking maybe I went too far on a joke?). I ask and she says nothing was wrong, as far as I was concerned, so for the last week, we didn't speak much. (I'm now attributing it to that lovely monthly cycle that those unfortunate enough get)

    Now:: School. I get to "girltalk" with three people, who in turn seem to find it tolerable, if not interesting. They're hot, but I made sure that didn't get tangled in with the friendship, so that's that. A few times a month, and it's generally fun (to the point where they can speak freely as if I were not present, which may sound a bit sad and perverted on my part, but I'm curious about this non-sense). Winter break hits, and I become a bit anti-social because I hadn't been able to speak to anybody except my parents (what hell that was) for 3 weeks. I still wave hello and chat, but not as much as before. Then, 3 days ago, I find that I don't exist anymore!!! HOLY HELL! 'Tis and interesting experience, but it's just gotten me too confused to know what to do! They've hardly any free time now because of upcoming exams, and, well...I'm a bit reluctant to go up and initiate conversation because I no longer know what should come out of my mouth.
    Normally I would pretend nothing happened and greet them like old friends, but it seems that something has nailed a dead animal to my forehead and they won't acknowledge me, instead just turning cold shoulders.
    I don't know what I did (or did not do) to piss them off, and I would really like to know what came of that. I don't think I'll ever understand females...
     
  2. PuppyCat

    PuppyCat O.T. Mom

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    Why don't you just go up to them and say "Hi, How's it going?"
    If you don't get anything positive, then, cut your losses.
    Men will never understand women, just like women will never understand men.
    It's a given in life.
     
  3. KDazzle

    KDazzle New Member

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    well you said yourself that you can be a "somewhat obnoxious humerous person". you probably just laid it on too thick at times and maybe they got tired of it?
     

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