oh damn v. made a move on friend

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  1. victimizati0n

    victimizati0n New Member

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    me + being drunk = doing stupid things

    to make a long story short, i pretty much tried to fuck her, and got denied

    should i say something to her, like apologize, or just leave it alone and dont say a word?

    i think she is kinda creeped out, i have known her for like 3 years, and we are pretty much just friends.. but yeah when im drunk i will try to fuck anything with a vagina (as long as they arent fat or a 1/10)
     
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    Vysion New Member

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    I wouldn't apologize. You should never apologize for being a man...

    How good of friends are you?
     
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    just_another_on New Member

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    Ha, i've been in the situation.

    I came at it with the, 'Sooo, obviously about the other night, I was drunk, you are cute/hot (which ever word works best), yes we are friends but the alcohol let me see the girl part of you, instead of the friend part' :big grin:
     
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    That's smooth, I like it... :bigthumb:
     
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    just_another_on New Member

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    Haha, it works, honestly. If you are both adults (Which you should be if you were drinking :hsugh:) its very easy to look past/understand. shouldnt be a big deal
     
  6. victimizati0n

    victimizati0n New Member

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    yeah, that was the deal, i didnt want to apologize, but i didnt want to leave it alone so she wouldnt think im trying to date her and have her get all weird on me

    we are pretty good friends, i talk to her almost every day, and see her a few times a week :uh:

    :bowdown: i can usually think of those things when other people come to me and ask, but when im in the situation i cant

    like i can post in threads here, give people awesome advise, they use it and it works, but if i was in the same situation as them, i wouldnt know what to do :hs::hs:

    but thats awesome, i will use that
     
  7. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    You really do a lot of stupid shit when you are drunk....You should try to stop drinking so much.
     
  8. Bob Brown

    Bob Brown bewshit, bewshit, bewshit

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    :bowrofl:
     
  9. antihero

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    chances are just as good that she would go along with it as not, so it really wasn't a bad decision on his part, despite the fact that it didnt work out as he would have liked.
     
  10. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    Oh I'm just referring to the other threads he's made now where he got wasted and did dumb shit.
     
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    you cant always say dumb shit is an unintended consequence of getting wasted though. often its the point. :rofl:
     
  12. NuShooz

    NuShooz OT Supporter

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    not to hijack this thread, but how many guys would still have a female friend this close if they had an LTR? just curous
     
  13. MissKitty

    MissKitty If squats were easy they'd be called 'Your Mum' OT Supporter

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    I would at least talk about it. Even if you don't feel the need to apologise it should be brought up in conversation so you can both at least clear the air.
     
  14. victimizati0n

    victimizati0n New Member

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    i havent been drunk for almost 2 months other than last night....
     
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    victimizati0n New Member

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    and that was only one thread, i got drunk and fucked a psycho chick that flipped out
     
  16. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    That's even worse. Even if you only get drunk every few weeks you are still geting drunk enough to do things you regret. You are young and still have to learn when enough is enough.

    Again, still two nights you got too drunk and made stupid decisions. Next thing you know you're getting an underage DUI.
     
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    LudaMan Active Member

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    I did the same thing a few months ago. I had been away at school for 6 months, moved back to after my semester was over and hung out with my really good female friend first thing. We went out, had a bit too much to drink and I ended up making out with her. Things were weird as hell for a while after that. We realized, however, that we were both adults and 3 years of friendship wasn't going to be ruined over one kiss.
     
  18. Drifter87

    Drifter87 Yippi-kay-ay, Motherfucker

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    I would just carry on like usual business. If she brings it up then talk about it, otherwise who cares?
     
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    NEVAR!
     
  20. 53k1a8

    53k1a8 the effects of the ugly stick are irreversible

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    tell us how that works out
     
  21. victimizati0n

    victimizati0n New Member

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    yeah, thats understandable.. i was freaked out that things were gonna get weird.. but i will let you guys know how it works

    i know when enough is enough.. its not like i dont know how to handle alcohol, i mean seriously, though who here in this forum can get drunk, and NOT do anything stupid?

    actually i have never seen someone get drunk and not do anything dumb before.. maybe its just my friends, im not sure

    and how the hell am i going to get an underage dui :hsugh: they still didnt have time machines when i was 20, so i couldnt have come from the past
     
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    Define "close"

    I've had 2 female friend that I've gotten really close to. Have known one for nearly 5 years, the other for 3. Hasn't been an issue for me...


    Back on topic, I was out about 2months back and blackout and bumped into my friend of 3 years. I told her, "How come we've never made out?" And then we made out and it was great and we were going to go back to my place...but I guess I went in to my friend's apartment and puked all over her couch.

    So basically, drinking prevented me from fucking a good friend of mine.
     
  23. snoodles

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    in the words of john wayne, "don't apologize. it's a sign of weakness."
     
  24. wolfskymoon

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    Reminds me of the situation when I got drunk as fuck one night, ended up walking around naked in the hallway, looking for a towel. The whole building thought I was gay haha.
     
  25. teep

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    been there done that. like everyone says, don't apologize like you did something awful and she'll get over it real quick. i've hooked up with a friend that way and it never happened again, but we stayed good friends. it's only as awkward as you make it.
     

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