*o* Headache problem...been several months

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  1. ISO9002

    ISO9002 New Member

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    me and my gf been living together for almost a year now...have had many arugements...overreacted over issues...too jealous of girls around me...never taken consideration of anyone...and more...thats why its very annoying to be living with her...

    BUT...if i broke up with her...she needs to find another apartment and roommate...she would have to pay her rent then...she is gonna be so poor...

    but i dont want to be angry and frustrated again....its hurting....plus we share same friends...its gonna be all weird and screwed up between all of us if we broke up...

    dunno what to do guys and girls...:wtc:
     
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    dye your hair. change your identity. move to vegas and become a stripper.
     
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    Just kidding. I know you are truly looking for some help here. Maybe try to help her find a roommate and an apartment elsewhere. You could still stay together, but living apart till you work out your problems :)
     
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    My experiance is that doesn't work.

    The way I look at it, is if you can't work shit out together, moving apart will only make it worse.

    Cut your losses and kick the bish out that door. ;)
     
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    Yeah, I think he's right. You just don't sound happy.
     
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    Its really hard to do it....she would be so helpless...i cant her see walking out that door needing to find a new apt with someone....but at the same time i struggle so hard to be living with her....
     
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    Either she is helpless :squint:. Or you are miserable :rolleyes:. If you love her, make it work. If not.. ... ..

    **Idea**

    Play sex games... take her out.. ditch the friends for a night.
     
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    C - O - M - M - U - N - I - C - A - T - I - O - N

    Why are you telling us? Tell her.
     
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    Cause we are all here to share...to talk to someone not involved....just share u know

    I have kinda told her already, but she said there is nothing she can do...just frustrated to ask her leave while i'm in pain...its funny...but...i dunno
     
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    +1 for communication.

    If that doesnt work...and chances are it wont...you'll have to bite the bullet and break up with her. Why stay together if you're unhappy? If shit isnt getting any better, then its just getting worse. Get out while you still can.

    Good luck.
     
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    1+ for optimism!
     

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