ive been talking to this girl that i met online. ive actually never really met a girl through that means but i figured why the hell not. i actually started to talk to her during my first break from the recent ex (feb 2009). spoke/text/etc for 2 months. then i got back w. my ex so i broke off the communication, explained to her why and she understood. feb this year me and the ex split for good and communication w. this girl opens back up. she lives in miami. has a cousin in tampa. so 2 weeks ago she visits me for the weekend and stays with me. overall we have a lot in common including interests and age. from what i know of her, she is a sweet person. now for the negatives: * she is already talking about moving to tampa. she masks it with "im tired of miami" and "i miss my cousin". i dont doubt that they may play a part in it but i also feel i do to. which is a BAD choice on her end to want to move here for a guy she met in person once. the thing is, she knows i refuse to commit to a long distance RS. * first night we go out she gets drunk. so am i. no biggie. these dudes from jaxville stop by the bar and they have beads on. she calls em over to ask for the beads. this already made me since she is 33. maybe im just weird. so they come over and of course want to see her tits for the beads. she asks me if its cool (hell no its not! but im not in a RS with you so do wtf you want). i say "they are not my tits. do what you want". she lifts up her shirt and shows her bra only. then pretty much teases the guys until they realize they wont see the whole thing and they leave. at this point i dont show it but in my head im * she shared with me that she was molested as a child. so in bed there is no rough play. im by no means a freak but no holding arms down? no ass smacking? * she will randomly text me with "i dont know why but im crying", "im feeling really sick right now", etc.. i feel like at times im a heartless fuck but i have VERY little patience for people who get depressed easily and are always "sick" and complaining about it. im a very happy person in general and do not like being dragged down with shit like that. the more i think about it the more i dont want to even continue this situation. sure she is cool and attractive and minus the "rules" when she spent the night it was fun... but one, i know this will go no where. and two, i dont want to hurt her by keeping this going when i know it will end badly. especially if she decides to move here. here is my question. she bought a surprise ticket to visit again next weekend (4/15). she was going to spend thur night with me and then all of friday. do i just ended it now? or should i wait until after she leaves tampa? this would not even be a question had she not already bought the ticket. but she has.... i would offer to pay her back but im sure she will say no.