So, I've been seeing this girl that I'm interested for about 2-3 weeks and we have hung out a few times. We went out on a date the first week we hung out and ended up making out passionately in my room after, but she said she couldn't do anything and I was fine with that. So we hang out a few more times and do the same shit, make out. I try to let my hands wander and she said we can't do anything. We went out two nights ago with a big group of people to a club and we were basically all over eachother, but yet again, nothing ended up happening afterward. Yesterday, I was over at her apartment and was just laying in her bed watching TV. We start doing the same old shit, I let my hands wander, and she denied me again. I finally got kinda frustrated from getting blue-balled so I asked why, and she said that it'd end up bad for both of us. I responded that it wasn't fair to either of us because it's turning us on a lot yet nothing is happening. She said it's obvious that we both like eachother, but that it would be a bad situation if we did end up having sex. I had to leave shortly after, but we did end up talking it over before I left. Note that neither of us are virgins. I am not sure wtf is happening here. I know there are some girls that are completely against sex before marriage or anything like that, but we both lead eachother on and it's getting to be pretty annoying. One of my friends (who happens to be a girl) told me to leave her alone for a little while and she'd eventually come back to me more interested. What does OT think? Cliffs: Make out with girl a lot, it's evident that we are both interested in eachother, yet no sex.