Not sure what is going on.

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  1. epracmetcon

    epracmetcon New Member

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    So there is this girl I have been hanging out with the passed few weeks and I am really crushing on her. She has told me she likes me and the likewise. We always have a good time with each other. We have kissed each other a few times and she usually is all close to me when we are together, ie holds hands and what not.

    Well she has been sick the past few days and havent really hung out. We text each other randomly throughout the day. I am now starting to get the vibe she is just using me because we haven't done anything past a kiss, which its kinda always been a bad situation where we cant really take it any further then that.
    Now I am sort of getting the vibe she isn't into me as much as I might of thought before.

    I asked her out to dinner friday night and she says she is not sure because she may be going to a festival with a guy from her work. I dunno if I should just stop talking to her all together and forget the bitch or what? I am going to six flags with her on saturday with another buddy and his girlfriend and I really don't want it to be awkward.

    OT recommend me what to do. Should I ask her how she really feels towards me or just suck it up and keep trying. I already bought tickets for this saturday for six flags.
     
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    So you're upset that a girl who you have been hanging out and having fun with has not been as into you recently while she's been sick? And furthermore, you are not in an exclusive relationship with her and you don't really have a "status" but you're upset she's got plans with a guy from work who may not be anymore than a friend?

    This is retarded. Why would you ditch her over that? Talk to her. Do a real date or at least talk about what the relationship is and then decide if it works for you. You're kind of overreacting from my point-of-view.
     
  3. epracmetcon

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    Thats kinda what I was thinking but I guess I just needed a bitch smack back into reality.
     
  4. enigmatic

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    I understand why you'd get upset that she's going with another guy, but in her eye she is not official yet. You were also bothered that you haven't done much past kissing...dude, she won't make the move. You have to.
     
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    I understand that.. I have been the one that makes all the moves. I guess I am not really bothered much by that considering the circumstances the past couple of weeks.
     
  6. enigmatic

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    You're bothered, you want to be with her. Let her go, then call her + ask her on a date, not to "hang out", and tell her when you will pick her up. Have an awesome date in mind, show the other guy up, and end it with more passion. You'll have her.:bigthumb:
     
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    Well I brought up the where are we going to her tonight. She tells me she does not want to think about it right now because she has too much going on. Then proceeds to tell me how much her life is getting screwed up and she wants a fresh start. This girl confuses me more every day.
     
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    update 2, she calls me back and apologizes for being a bitch and we are going out tomorrow night to discuss it.
     
  9. Yail Bloor

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    festival = fun

    dinner = boring

    easy choice for her imo
     
  10. enigmatic

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    Wouldn't say that off the bat, but I know what you are saying.
     
  11. Yail Bloor

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    then you agree
     
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    why not do something fun with her then have dinner? :dunno:
     
  13. epracmetcon

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    we will see after tonight. I will post what happens.
     

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