not sure if she's interested

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  1. jonno

    jonno New Member

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    ok, i feel like an idiot making this thread because i have said multiple times "if you're outta HS and don't know if she's interested or not... you're retarded."

    i guess i'm retarded.

    i had a night class that only met once a week with this chick a year ago. in class she has:

    - called me her boyfriend multiple times in front of the whole class
    - say weird/cute things about me in front of the whole class
    - always talked to me on breaks
    - would pass me notes
    - asked me my full name.. then added me on facebook 1 minute later
    - invited me out after class to eat/drink (with a group of her friends)

    and there is probably more shit that went on but i can't think of it at the moment. it may seem obvious that she was interested, but if you knew her personality you'd think twice. i have never met someone so outgoing and just full of energy. it's insane. she's crazy, not in a bad way. but i just got the vibe that she was just fucking with me, i can't explain it. or maybe it's just her crazy personality and i happened to be the one she said this shit to. i don't know.

    so, after not talking to her once after the final. i think of her for whatever reason and send her a text saying "it's your boyfriend from school. i'm breaking up with you since we havnt spoken in so long." after a few laughs she invited me to go hiking with her this week. i guess i'm just going to go into it neutral and not think about whether it's a date or not.
     
  2. macbook bro

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    knowing nothing about the situation my guess is she was interested but you didn't do anything so now she's not interested. you might still be able to salvage though.

    my general rule is to assume she's interested until proven otherwise
     
  3. jonno

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    :werd: the reason why i didnt ask her out is because i'm not THAT attracted to her. she isnt ugly but is VERY tall. i almost always go for short chicks. obviously her height isnt something that's going to change. but her personality is bad ass.
     
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    Shit I've been there. Had a girl who I could tell was really into me, but I just couldn't get over the lack of physical attraction to her. She wasn't ugly at all, just for some reason it didn't click for me.

    My only advice is to try to go after it anyway, looks will fade but a personality will stay the same.
     
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    as my grandfather once said "beauty fades. but if she's a cunt she'll be a cunt forever."
     
  6. antihero

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    who gives a damn if shes interested or not? why is that important? The only reason to care if shes already interested in you is because you are such a coward and weakling cant face the rejection. You are waiting for her to be more of a man then you are. Girls in general are more afraid of rejection then guys.

    Do things to make her interested and proceed as if she was. Girls are EXCELLENT at clearing things up real quick if shes sure shes not interested and not interested in thinking about maybe getting interested. At least then you can hold your head up high knowing you gave it a shot and move on not having to wonder what if.

    Ok, im going to lay some mitch wisdom on you.
    "I like baked potatoes, but they take too long to make. Sometimes I throw one in the oven, even if I don't want one. By the time it's done, who knows?"

    throw one in her oven dude.
     
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  7. macbook bro

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    however dumb you think you might look/feel if you get rejected and however awkward you think its going to be between you and her if you get rejected... its going to be 1,000 times worse if you never make a move
     
  8. jonno

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    like I said before - the only reason I didn't make a move before was because I wasn't sure if I could get past the fact that she's a shitload taller. now I'm like "who gives a shit?"
     
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    cool. so now you know what to do. and you know when you are going to it. (this week)

    have fun bro!
     
  10. jonno

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    :werd: once we get to the top of the mountain I'm gunna ask her if she wants to climb another mountain and whip out my boner. good idea, right?
     
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    poopie pants
     
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    maybe not the best plan, but its an improvement.
     
  13. jonno

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    baby steps....
     
  14. iwishyouwerebeer

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    You silly boy.

    She likes you. Go on the "date" and as long as it feels good give her a kiss. I doubt she'll deny you.
     
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    miss you
     
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    how was harpoon? My friend said it was good but a little expensive.

    I was gonna hit that up but my friend hit it BIG at foxwoods so we balled out, met some cool girls, etc etc and stayed for most of Saturday too. Plus the rain sucked anyway.
     
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    didn't go cause of the rain :hs:

    and that's sick. how big? and on what game? I've yet to go to foxwoods
     
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    How tall is she / you?
     
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    i'm 5'10" or 11". she's probably 6'3"
     
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    :bowrofl::bowrofl::bowrofl:

    How did it go?
     
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    HOLY FUCK THAT IS AWESOME
     
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    :confused:
     
  23. Cobra Commander

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    That was a random outburst, I must say. Basically I have always wanted to hook up with an amazonian goddess. Even if she is a little bit on the 6-7/10 side of looks.

    Nothing better than kissing legs for miles, bro
     
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    I didn't go this year, but I went to last year's Harpoon Octoberfest... It's fun, yeah, but it's like an overcrowded outdoor bar with a $20 cover. You have to wait in two lines to get beer, one to get beer tickets, and another to use the tickets to get beer, so that fucks everything up. Basically you want buy a bunch of tickets, get your first beer, then walk straight to the back of the line and drink while you wait for the next one.

    It's fun, yeah, but it's expensive and it's kind of a hassle.
     
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    :werd: i guess it goes on friday AND saturday which i didnt know. couple dudes i know went on friday night and had a blast.
     

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