not sure if i should spend time and energy on this chick

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  1. TomBrady

    TomBrady New Member

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    i met this chick and we had sex the second night seeing each other. i kinda ilke her and she feels the same [we talked about it] and we set up a date. my question is, is she going to be a waste of time? to my understanding, she has had a few one night stands :hsugh:
     
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    kopetzki Banned

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    I wouldn't do it personally. If she has had a bunch of one night stands and slept with you on the 2nd date already, chances are she has self esteem issues and a low sense of morality. Not the kind of people I'd want to associate myself with, but you might be different.
     
  3. TomBrady

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    what i was thinking but let me clear a few things up
    she knows that her sleeping around is bad and she usually only sleeps with the person when they have been dating for a while ..[yeah sure :hsugh:]
    she also seemed genuinely interested but the fact that we fucked without knowing anything about each other kind of made me :ugh::wtc: at the whole situation. blame it on the goose i guess

    btw we have hung out and had sex more than once already
    just wondering if i should take things to the next step or just continue to casually fuck
    she seems fun to hang out with thats why but im afraid im going to be depressed/emo when she goes off and fucks some other dude that was me
     
  4. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    How many people have you slept with?
     
  5. Diesel66

    Diesel66 My standards for women is like rent-a-centers stan OT Supporter

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  6. LBFilmGuy

    LBFilmGuy LOL why u mad tho?

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    Well, what do you want? :hsugh:

    Sounds like a good situation to me, why ruin it and try and get serious?
     
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    Consensual sex is immoral. She has sullied herself. Seek another mate.
     
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    untoastytoast The Glory Days

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    :rofl: i love the double standard here, how the girl is insecure and has issues is she fucks off the bat, but the guy is just doing good :coolugh:
     
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    It's pretty pathetic that I predicted the first post would be along the lines that it was.

    And whether or not it's true WHO GIVES A FUCK

    Anybody who says to not bang this chick (as long as you yourself are a level minded guy) is jealous and wrong.

    Period.

    When you're 60 years old I bet you whatever you want you're not going to look back and be like "man, I'm so happy I avoided that fickle, feeble minded young girl when I was a 20 something year old walking boner-- Banging her would really have affected the outcome of my life"
     
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    ibBUTWHATABOUTTHEHIV
     
  11. chlywly

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    Really does say a lot about a person I think..I generally to get disinterested if a woman puts out too soon.
     
  12. Mugen92GS-R

    Mugen92GS-R New Member

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    I hate these kinds of fucking threads :rofl:

    I was talking with my girlfriend tonight and we were discussing why we're so good at sex and pleasing each other, and I joked around with "Shit, we've both been around the block plenty :mamoru:". And it's true. The REASON we have such great sex is BECAUSE we both have a lot of experience with different people. Men want women who are good in bed, and I'm not saying having a lot of sex with ONE person can't make you good, but having a lot of experience with multiple people will result in a more well-rounded sexual experience. Men want women to be good in the sack, but don't want them to sleep with anyone? We want to bang the girls we're dating, but if they do it too soon, we think less of them? :ugh:

    Personally, I love a girl who's sexual, assertive, and confident. I know if I was a sexual, assertive, and confident woman, I'd be having lots of sex.

    Stop with the double standard. It doesn't matter how long it took until she banged you, it doesn't matter how many dudes she's been with, it doesn't matter how many cocks she's sucked, or how many boyfriends she's had...

    She's with you now.
     
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    :rofl:

    i remember one of the girls that i slept with who "had been around the block" was still a deadfish in bed
     
  14. LBFilmGuy

    LBFilmGuy LOL why u mad tho?

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    The only people who worry about this are those that are indeed sexually inexperienced.
     
  15. TomBrady

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    i know but its not so much worried about how many partners shes with but more so that shes going to cheat on me. if she was that easy to get for me, shell be just as easy for any other guy..and because were not oficially dating or together, i dont want to put the cards on the table just to have them thrown on the floor. i guess im afraid of getting stabbed in the heart again if that makes sense. i actually do like this chick though
     
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    Are you saying that for two people, each of whom has had sex 50 times, the person who has had 50 one night stands will be better in bed than the person who has fucked their SO 50 times?
     
  17. TomBrady

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    ive had one real long term sex partner before now and i fuck like a pornstar
    i really just watch a lot of porn and experimented with my gf at the time. ive been told that im a god :cool:
     
  18. Mugen92GS-R

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    The person who's had 50 one night stands is familiar with what 50 dudes like and dislike. The person who's had sex with their SO only knows what that ONE guy likes. Not every guy is the same, just like how not every girl is the same. What I'm saying is the girl who's been with more guys is going to have a wider range of experience pleasuring guys, and therefore it will be easier for her to find out what pleases ME, as she will have a longer line of "moves" to draw on.

    Similarly, if I were to have only been with one girl in my life, i'd only have experience eating one girl out. When I go to the next girl, who's to say she'll like what the other girl liked? If she was the only girl I'd ever experimented on, I'd be at a loss for what to do if a new girl didn't like my technique, because I wouldn't have the experience.
     

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