not sounding so good?

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  1. BeatKonducta

    BeatKonducta New Member

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    ok, so this girl and i go out on a date last saturday. everything goes pretty damn well. we have a lot in common, etc. she pulls some moves like holding my hand, etc. so she obviously likes me. the night goes by without a hitch. goodnight kiss, etc, etc. so we talk the next day and everything is fine. i try to call her on monday, no call back. she says she missed my call and thought that it would be too late to call back, so she didn't. the next day we talk in the morning and she says she will call laster that night. no call, she says her phone is dead when i talk to her the next day but she promises she'll call later on that night (last night). we even went over plans, etc for this saturday when we talked in the morning yesterday. so this is the 2nd time she hasn't called, and 3rd if you want to count the first one. so what the hell's up? am i flipping out over nothing?
     
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    I would say if you like the girl play it cool. I would not try to match play this at all and not call her back just make an effort and trust in what she says. After a while if there is other truth it will come out. Probably not what you wanted to hear but the best advice.
     
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    actually, pretty good advice. just gonna let her get ahold of me if she wants to talk.
     
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    wow, no offense but you sound like a girl "he said he'd call but he didn't, then he did, and said he'd call again but he didn't. then he did. what does it all mean?" cmon man, get ahold of yourself.

    she probably just really can't call you or forgot to, no big deal. it happens. dont make a big issue out of it. like the first reply, play it cool and just wait. dont dwell on it.
     
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    if a girl really wants to see you, she will contact you. she already knows she wont' be rejected because you've made that clear

    forget about her for now

    besides, you don't want to date someone you have to hound all the time. or at least i doubt it. think about that!
     
  6. esbenkramer

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    She's playing around with you. Dumb her right away. A girl that does those things to check your feelings is not worth it. I know nothing worse than women who make up hese tests.
     
  7. BeatKonducta

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    i am a lot like a girl when it comes to relationships, lol. just gonna play it cool and see what happens. no more calling, if i see her online i'm going to see what's up.
     
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    you said you made plans for sat. if she doenst blow them off or whatever, her reasons were probably legit.

    just wait it out. sometimes we do get busy, not everything a girl does are supposed to be mind games
     
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    true. just going to wait it out and see.
     
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    I'm just thinking that. hey, she's not your GF, just someone you're dating, so no reason to flip. Some people do get busy, or lose track of time.

    Just wait it out, it'll work out one way or another.
     
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    well i last called on wed. we were supposed to go out today. haven;t heard from her since tues. i guess that's that. :dunno:
     
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    StuDLei Death before Dishonor

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    no offense, but she probably found someone shes more interested in. Let it go and see what happens. The ball is in her court.
     
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    yea, it's not really bothering me that we're not going out today. what's really bothering me is what the fuck is going on. so i called for the very last time and left a message asking her what's going on. if she's interested, etc. and to call me back and just to let me know what the fuck is going on. so she's either going to call back and let me the fuck know. or she's not and that'll be that.
     
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    *yawn* still no call. figures. guess that was that. :dunno:
     
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    StuDLei Death before Dishonor

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    move on to better shit bro
     
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    Please, don't call anymore. :hs:

    She's a girl. If she's truly into you, and interested, she wouldn't hesitate to call and let you know. You said so yourself you're like a girl when it comes to that to type of thing with calling and whatnot, so if that's the case, WHY isn't she behaving like the girl she is and doing it to you? That should make you wonder...:dunno:

    Please, don't take this personally. Perhaps she got to thinking and felt whatever. Who knows. Don't call her wanting an explanation. If she wants to talk to you, let her come to you NOW. If she doesn't, so be it. You can take comfort in knowing you tried over, and over again. If no call back, oh well. She probably wasn't worth your time anyway to be that sorry to where she couldn't even be woman enough to be honest with you about it. :hsd:
     
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    total truth right there. done calling. leaving that alone now. now....what if she calls? i was told by many people to ignore it. but what if she has a legit reason?
     
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    If she has a legit reason, then hear her out. If you feel it's insignificant, then don't put up with it. It's truly that simple. :hs:
     
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    PuppyCat O.T. Mom

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    I am in agreement with everybody...just let it flow...if it happens, it happens.
     
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    :bigthumb:
     
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    So... just trying to get a feel of the time span going on here. Your date was when? and she has not called since when? It sounds to me like it's been over a week. If that's true, then it doesn't look good for you. But maybe she just hates phones :)
     
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    date was sat before last. we last talked exactly a week ago.
     

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