Not so good with this, Girl has BF, but is she interested in me?

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  1. XJ3B

    XJ3B wat

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    I'm not great with figuring this shit out. . always read things wrong

    wonder what you guys think

    got these facebook posts

    her: hey whats up? lol
    me: not too much, its been a while. . whats up with you
    her: nothing much u should txt me sometim lol im at a cubs game right now
    me: i will txt sometime . .and its going to be full of smileys :rofl: (felt like throwing that in there)
    her: kk lol i hope u have my new cell number lol i forgot if i gave it to you.... im soo forgetful! lol
    me: hmm i dont think i do?
    her: we'll have to fix that then ;)

    then private messaging
    her: ***-***-****
    me: coool, yea i didnt have this one
    her: well now ya do ;) dont be a stranger...

    sounds like she is interested, but problem is she is listed as in relationship. only about a few weeks tho

    She just trying to be friends or what?


    edit: and the backstory was met at a party, she was single, she gave me her number (i didnt ask for it). txted and called back and forth a bit but she then seemed disinterested. i completely stopped communication, a few weeks later, she is in relationship but contacting me a lot
     
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  2. more off

    more off Moderator

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    she thinks she's in a relationship with you :hsugh:
     
  3. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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  4. Viper

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    Good luck getting advice about this hear. :rofl: It's like trying to pull teeth.

    That doesn't sound like interest to me. Not saying she's NOT interested, but what you posted isn't enough to really determine if she's actually interested in you or if she's just looking to friendzone you. I've gotten messages like that several times and 90% of the time it leads to a good, solid friendzoning.

    Want to curb that? Be upfront and direct with her.

    More and more I'm starting to realize that BF doesn't mean shit. A girl isn't truly taken until she's married. :dunno:
     
  5. MCohen

    MCohen #NotMyPresident #AmericaIsAlreadyGreat #GoSolar OT Supporter

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    This is a typical case of an inexperienced guy getting ahead of himself because a girl is talking to him.

    If she was interested in anything beyond friendship with you, she wouldn't have gotten involved with someone else. Thats the bottom line.
     
  6. Diesel66

    Diesel66 My standards for women is like rent-a-centers stan OT Supporter

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    sure she actually has a bf ? lots of ladies put that shit just to avoid the random messages
     
  7. MCohen

    MCohen #NotMyPresident #AmericaIsAlreadyGreat #GoSolar OT Supporter

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    This is true for Myspace, not so much for Facebook.
     
  8. 60druidgurubash

    60druidgurubash OT Supporter

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    facebook relationship status may be fake. prevent random guys from messaging her :dunno:
     
  9. God of Thunder

    God of Thunder New Member

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    no, you don't randomly do that on facebook because you can't search for random people.....you have to physically type in their name to find them.
     
  10. Mass0r

    Mass0r Kisses and Smuggles OT Supporter

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    pretty much.

    not homewrecking if they're not in a home kinda thing


    and half the girls/guys in marriages are not capable of maintaining a stable one anyways
     
  11. JohnJohnJohnson

    JohnJohnJohnson Effetely Sipping My Latte OT Supporter

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    Yeah

    No, she could be interested anyway. People may be monogamous, but not usually their interest.
     
  12. JohnJohnJohnson

    JohnJohnJohnson Effetely Sipping My Latte OT Supporter

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    Hey that's not fair! Half of your question in that thread was about morality. At least the way it was phrased.
     
  13. sportsjunkie

    sportsjunkie OT Supporter

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    :rofl: that does not seem like she is interested in you. interested in remaining friends maybe, but a relationship while she has a bf, most likely not

    and if she has a bf, and she is interested....no one wants a cheater
     
  14. DigiCrime

    DigiCrime If Only!

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    sounds like shes just bored with who she is with and looking for something to fill that void or direct her attention somewhere else. doesn't mean she is interested in you though
     
  15. XJ3B

    XJ3B wat

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    :hsd: thanks guys
     

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