Not going to this girl's birthday party/celebration

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  1. knucks

    knucks Active Member

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    I'll try to be brief:

    Went out on 2 dates with this girl, afterwards, miscommunication or what, she never called me back after something, I thought I was the bigger person and never called her. We stopped talking for about a month. Got in touch again 1-2 weeks ago, she sounded happy to hear from me. Despite us both being very busy, she said: "I'm sure we can figure something out, hopefully."

    Plans didn't work out last week. This weekend she is going to Canada to bars/casino and invited me over the phone. Then messaged me on Facebook regarding it.

    I would go but right now I feel like it is a lot of work (have to get picked up by someone from campus, driven home to get my car. Drive to canada. Get driven back on campus Sunday w/o my car..)
    and I'm thinking "Well, I feel like I'd be going to Canada just for this girl..and it feels like too much work."

    Besides, I'm hanging out with a girl back here right now so that's going well, really not motivated to go out of my way for this chick's Canada trip.

    Am I just learning how not to be a lil bitch? lol

    edit: Mind you, I really liked this girl..but we live far away and it's just not convenient for either of us :/
     
  2. bjonesy77

    bjonesy77 New Member

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    Just tell her you cant make it because you've got previous plans but maybe you can hang out when she gets back.

    But what you said about your car, does she want you to go just so you can drive or does she actually want you to go? If she invited you on her birthday and the plans were already made why do you need to drive separate?
     
  3. DTR rex

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    F that.

    Too much work. Unless you're certain she will ride you in land of maple leafs. But that could mess up what you have going on with the girl at home, so again... F that.
     
  4. knucks

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    Right, too much work.
    I don't have a car on campus. If I wanted to go, I'd have to have my dad come get me, take me home so I can get my car. Drive to Canada from there..and it all seems like a waste because it feels like I'm doing too much work.

    That and even if anything happened tonight, it really wouldn't go anywhere long term since, once again, the distance issue. Besides, I'm hanging out with this housemate so it's too much effort to do anything else right now.
     
  5. ASoT

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    Make up an excuse why you can't go. When she gets back, call her up and ask her out since you didn't get to come on the Canada trip. Tell her you wanna hear all about it or something.
     
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    if it feels wrong, don't do it. :dunno:
     
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    Where you live? NY, Phili, Bean-town?
     
  8. MattThom01

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    Do what you want to do.

    If it seems like it is more work than it is worth, don't do it.

    If she gets upset, oh well. You can't just put your life on hold for a girl.
     

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