FRK Not cumming

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  1. BlaqueMan

    BlaqueMan New Member

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    ok guys and gals so i had sex for the first time like, a week ago, but i didnt cum! we went for like, an hour, but nothing! and like, i was hard and turned on and everything, its always taken me a while to cum, and i can do it by myself, but i just couldnt! any suggestions or tips?

    at the moment im not jacking for a week so this weekend ill HAVE to cum

    thanks
     
  2. Bubba Atlantis

    Bubba Atlantis New Member

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    Ask this in Vag, because you will get more helpful answers in there for that sort of thing :wavey:
     
  3. Sp33dealer

    Sp33dealer OT Supporter

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    Was she loose?

    Well I guess you can't necessarily answer that question since it was your first, but at least did it feel tight at all?
     
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    nerves
     
  5. Jay487

    Jay487 What's Life If You Ain't Enjoyin' It?

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    death grip syndrome? (used to a tight grip around your cock as opposed to a lubricated warm hole)

    I didnt cum my first 10 times, but that's from a whole slew of issues, mostly me being insecure/nervous.
     
  6. BlaqueMan

    BlaqueMan New Member

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    it happened a second time...
     
  7. Jay487

    Jay487 What's Life If You Ain't Enjoyin' It?

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    read my above post
     
  8. BlaqueMan

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    ok that makes me feel better. yea when i jack it i do go pretty tight, and i guess that combined with the nervousness.

    thanks, really, ive been worried but now i think i got it

    guess i gotta jack lighter
     
  9. Jay487

    Jay487 What's Life If You Ain't Enjoyin' It?

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    honestly man, i wouldnt even jerk off at all if you're getting steady sex.

    I jerked off for so long before I had sex (again, insecurity issues = i didnt lose my virginity until I was 20) so by the time I finally had sex it was a WHOLE new feeling to get used to. Once I did, cumming was no issue, I just had my own issues to get over. I still have them with new partners, the first few times I never get off because there's such a huge mental block from me being nervous with a new partner.

    Don't even bother wanking it, and be selfish in bed. By that, I mean don't pay attention to them, don't worry about trying to please them, cause youll forget about yourself. I was so worried I wasn't doing anything for her I couldnt even get myself off. Once you can get yourself off, then work on pleasing her too.
     
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    it could be you're hitting it too hard by yourself, it could be stress, it could be you're trying too hard, or any number of things. gotta chill, man, but don't worry, it happens to everyone once in a while.
     
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    and like totaly.. like... LIKE LIKE LIKE.. ANYONE ELSE NOTICE THE "LIKE"S?
     
  12. Bubba Atlantis

    Bubba Atlantis New Member

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    yeah it bugs me too...Valley talk pisses me off

    We are, like, gonna have to, like, chat again GreenPillow :)...like catch up...like totally :mamoru:
     
  13. BlaqueMan

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    again, that makes me feel alot better, guess i just have to adapt and not jack, which i can do.


    and im sorry bout all the "likes," bad habit...
     
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    BAd habit?! if you are 12. You have to be 18+ to be in hur.
     
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    YUH.. I am super busy most of the time ... I was doing math problems while I was trying to sleep I finally just took a sleeping pill...
     
  16. Bubba Atlantis

    Bubba Atlantis New Member

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    lol yeah, I am not on MSN or anything anymore either. Busy with work. I tend to now communicate with everyone through emails :mamoru: I just email back and forth regularly with a few people
     
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    I would PM you my email.. but.... lol I dont wanna cough out money
     
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    Bubba Atlantis New Member

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    I think I still have your email actually.
     
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    Lovely Atlantis Luscious Lovely Lady!

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    *shudders* math problems? Sounds more like you were having a nightmare to me. :noes:
     
  20. BlaqueMan

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    well don't post stuff that belongs in Vag in FS and your thread will stay on topic ;)
     
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    or say "like" more then it should be used.
     

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