Not cumming?

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  1. noon

    noon get high and teach me how to listen

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    Ever since I can remember, it has been physically impossible for me to finish during sex. Only when a girl knows exactly how to blow me will I finish, and out of ~30 odd girls, only one has. Is there a legitimate physical cause for this, like some type of ED, or is it all in my head?

    When I masturbate I can get off, but it does take ~45 minutes to an hour each time.. has anyone ever heard of this?
     
  2. Jay487

    Jay487 What's Life If You Ain't Enjoyin' It?

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    Well I've yet to get off during head either... the first couple times with someone I haven't gotten off either, which im almost positive is just because im nervous/insecure/whatever - but once I get comfortable with them I got off everytime....

    Even when masturbating it takes that long? Are you on any kind of medication or prescription or recreational drug? Thats the only thing I could think of, otherwise you might want to ask your doctor :dunno:
     
  3. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    Are you on any meds?
    How often do you masturbate?
     
  4. Yuppy

    Yuppy Have a seat right there....

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    you should try going a week or 2 with out masturbating.

    try new positions.
     
  5. noon

    noon get high and teach me how to listen

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    Masturbate maybe twice a week, no prescription meds other than adderall (lately, but I had this problem long before taking it)

    Last year I got pissed about it and quit masturbating completely, went for about two and a half months and still no luck.
     
  6. antihero

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    you should be able to finish yourself off in less then 10 minutes. Work on that efore you bring someone else into it.
     
  7. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    Well it's most likely mental. You could always see a doc to make sure though :dunno:
     
  8. HuskiRuski

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    maybe you have an undiscovered fetish.
    i'm being completely serious.
     
  9. JordanClarkson

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    not undiscovered. it'd be classified as masochism. :)
     
  10. JordanClarkson

    JordanClarkson OT Supporter

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    it's not ED unless you have problems staying hard. do you masturbate to a visual fantasy or just what feels good?
     
  11. 2angelmd

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    Enjoy being a stallion. Bring whoever into it you like and tell them what's up make it a game if need be, but by all means enjoy it for what it's worth.
     
  12. Two toys

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    maybe you are gay?
     
  13. noon

    noon get high and teach me how to listen

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    No problems staying hard, even for hours and hours as long as she is into it. I'd say sometimes it is just what feels good, sometimes a visual fantasy (depends on how attractive the girl is :mamoru:)

    Of course that has crossed my mind and anyone who I talk to to makes the joke, but that's not it. Sex just doesn't "feel" good enough, no matter how tight a girl is or how in love with her I am... Actually, the only girl that did get me off is the only girl I've been head over heals in love with. But even then it took forever.

    Is this really that rare, or has anyone heard of this before? I'd much rather pop a pill before sex than have some difficult mental block :o
     
  14. noon

    noon get high and teach me how to listen

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    :rofl: I do, but some girls are intimidated by it.. "Am I not hot/good enough to get you off.."
     
  15. Two toys

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    maybe you should get into porn... although i guess if its a mental block, the audience factor wouldnt help much.
     
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    just a thought...i'm assuming that you are no longer with the girl you were head over heels in love with ...did it end badly? maybe your mind is putting up some sort of mental roadblock because of something that happened with that girl.
     
  17. Nuk3

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    stress? :dunno:
     
  18. Midgetized

    Midgetized Don't mess with Douche Cat

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    yes, it's called delayed ejaculation
     
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    how long ago were you with the girl who you were head over heels in love with? how soon into your sexually active life was she?
     
  20. demosnat

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    You should really see a doctor, i wouldn't say that except for the fact that it takes you that long to masturbate.

    You might have a problem with sensitivity.
     
  21. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    :werd:

    OP, after your last 2 posts I'm kind of concerned.
     
  22. JordanClarkson

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    It might be that you're just not a very sexual person. Or that you need a very strong emotional connection in order to enjoy sex.

    The best advice would be to see a doctor.
     
  23. eskarinna

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    i know it has been said but you should see a doctor.

    Guys anything you see unusal with your performance or appearance of the fun pack you have you should see a doctor. Even if its nothing you will feel better knowing that it is nothing.
     
  24. Jay487

    Jay487 What's Life If You Ain't Enjoyin' It?

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    you say sex just doesnt feel good enough, which I can relate if youre talking about death grip syndrome (jerking off for so long/much that youre just used to a really tight grip on your dick :o ) but you say even when you masturbate you have the problem, so Im not sure :dunno:
     
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