Not all women enjoy receiving oral?

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  1. moobs

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    I was talking with a friend and she told me she doesn't like it. Is this possible or is she just insecure or something? This is the first girl who has ever told me this.
     
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    I'm not a big fan of head either, and I am a guy and it's like a carnal sin for us to not enjoy head. :dunno:

    Yeah, it's possible.
     
  3. chica&buddies

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    i disagree... but i'm sure it's true. :dunno:

    i have a friend that's pretty insecure about it due to a past experience. :dunno:
     
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    Ideotique Drinking on monday nights does not make me an alco

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    Ex didn't like it flat out. But she was pretty conservative.

    Another ex didn't like it due to a bad experience but changed her mind later.
     
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    I'm not really a big fan of it either... I've always gotten more pleasure from being fingered. :dunno:

    But I absolutely LOVE to give head. :drool:
     
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    I had an ex that didn't like receiving it... Strange.
     
  7. coldstone

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    I've told girls I don't like getting head... because I didn't wanna hurt their feelings, not because I don't like getting head.

    If someone tells you they don't like receiving oral sex, it's either because a) they don't want oral from you or b) they have never had good oral sex or c) due to some traumatic experience in the past or d) body image issues.

    There may be a RARE few who don't enjoy oral just because, but then again, there are a RARE few people in this world who don't enjoy sex just because.
     
  8. Diesel66

    Diesel66 My standards for women is like rent-a-centers stan OT Supporter

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    Either she's not at all sensative (my ex), it would just be a waste of time and energy.

    or she might be insecure.
     
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    Bruticus half dead OT Supporter

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    Newsflash - Not everyone enjoys the same things.

    However I've never spoken to anyone who hasn't enjoyed good oral, unless they have some major issue (body, trust, whatever).
     
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    i am not that big of a fan of it, but that could be due to the fact that i haven't gotten off from a guy doing it :o
     
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    probably just insecure or has some hangups about it, either that or she's too sensitive (as some people mentioned), OR she's never had good oral. because once you get good oral... you never go back.
     
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    Ex didn't like it, not sure if it was technique (which I tried different things) or what not.
     
  13. AgGoNy

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    my gf isn't a big fan of it either, she says its because she can have multiple orgasms, likes oral, but prefers to get plowed. she likes giving me oral tho
     
  14. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    I've talked to a few women who didn't care for oral. You usual reasosn for dislike were:
    1. No guy who had done it knew what they were doing/didn't get off
    2. They felt insecure and awkward about it which ruined it for them
    3. It really just didn't feel as good as sex

    I've known guys who also said they liked head but much preferred sex :dunno:
     
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    I had a GF in HS that thought that oral (giving or receving) made her a slut but I could fuck her on the tailgate of my truck in her parents driveway. Moral of the story? The female thought process makes no sense.
     
  16. coldstone

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    Yep.
     
  17. Alaya

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    Sometimes I don't, I really have to be in the mindset for it. But I think I fall under the category of "bad incident in the past" that has made me weary of it. Generally, I really can't enjoy it until I realllllllly trust the person and have been dating them for awhile. Then I'm fine about it and enjoy it.
     
  18. Lucky Penny

    Lucky Penny Mr. cut me some slack cause I don't wanna go back,

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    I can't stand it! I'll give it, but please don't return the favor :rofl:
     
  19. coldstone

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    Why is that?
     
  20. Lucky Penny

    Lucky Penny Mr. cut me some slack cause I don't wanna go back,

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    Oy. Ya know, nothing about it is appealing to me and it just seems so damn awkward.

    So there I am, laying there. All nudie. With a guy between my legs, but then what? What do I do with my hands? Where do I put my feet? If I start getting into it, then what? Do I arch my back, hold my hips in the air and ride his face like they do in porn?!? :eek4: That hardly seems appealing. If I were him, I wouldn't want to come up for air with my face looking like a glazed donut.

    I've tried it twice (with two different partners) and it didn't feel good, it was way too much pressure and I couldn't get out of my own head. :dunno:

    I say just hit me from behind and make us both happy, mmkay? :rofl:
     
  21. coldstone

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    Damn! I thought the guys on here overthink things. :hs:

    It's just head. Lie back, let the fella do his thing, and enjoy.
     
  22. Lucky Penny

    Lucky Penny Mr. cut me some slack cause I don't wanna go back,

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    :rofl: I really did laugh out loud just then


    I'm sure its all mental (except the too much pressure part) I've just got to figure out how to shut my mind up so I can enjoy it. :dunno:
     
  23. coldstone

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    The female mind... such a complex thing. :hs:

    I would honestly go nuts if I were forced to think like a woman. I can't concentrate on a gazillion things at the same time like women can. I don't have a gazillion things running through my head like women do. If I am on Excel and I am on the phone, if someone else comes to talk to me, I either have to get away from excel or get away from the phone. Then you have my assistant who's on the phone, is on her computer, is checking her calendar, is talking to a gazillion other people, is doing paperwork, eating lunch... all at the same time. I am always :eek4: when I see her multi-tasking.

    I guess that's why getting head is easier for us men. We just relax and enjoy, and not think about anything else.
     
  24. Lucky Penny

    Lucky Penny Mr. cut me some slack cause I don't wanna go back,

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    Yeah, its exhausting sometimes :rofl:




    Oh Coldstone, teach me the way of the one track mind ;) I'll forever be in your debt!
     
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