Okay, so just in case you guy didn't know, I've been in Baghdad now since Jan. I met this girl about 4 months prior, and we fell madly in love with each other. She's a great girl, everything about her is what i want in my life. I plan on buying a ring when i get back. SO far, for the last 9 1/2 months, we've had a pretty good channel of communication. I have internet at my disposal most of the time, and phones are always up. We miss each other badly as one can imagine. There's just one thing thats bugging the hell outa me. All the rest of the guys im here with, their wives, gf's, whatever send them pictures all the time. Webcams are the THING to do at night now. My roommate, his girlfriend gets naked and goes buck wild for him ALMOST everynight. Other guys in my company, that's all they talk about now. "Yeah, last night my wife and I webcamed for a good 4 hours. She busted out the vibe." "Girlfriend was naked and touching herself for me, I watched it all, it was awesome!" and so on and so forth. MY girlfriend, refuses to do any of that. The most risky thing she'll do is send me pictures of like her in her business clothes, or maybe her bend over wearing some blue jeans. Being deployed is difficult enough, let alone the sexual frustration that comes with it. When i try to ask the gf to do MORE for me, she always comes back with the usual, "i dont feel sexy", or "my ass is huge, i dont want to take a picture of it". Gimme a break, im not showing them to my whole company, and we've slept together i dont know how many times, so its nothing new. Any one have any suggestions on what i should or COULD do?? I only have about 3 months left in this shit hole, so im thinking i should just tough it out at this point. If she hasnt done it at this point, what makes me think she'll change now?? I would rather beat off to pics of her then just some fucking porn. She doesnt understand that i guess... CLIFFS: Ive been in Iraq for 9 months, and gf wont get sexy for me on webcam or send sexy pictures.