This question has been on my mind for months, and now I'm finally asking. I have a very sexual side to me. I'm smart enough to stay away from sex and such for the time being, but I really love to turn on my girl. I love her with all my heart and our relationship is more loving and sensual then anything else, but I have a wild side to me that is completely opposite to her. Whenever I do anything to turn her on, she relates it to me being horny and then downfall from there. All that talk about girls being more horny than guys, does not exist between us. The only days she is somewhat turned on at all are during her period, and I don't even prefer to be around her much less on those days. The way this has been going is leading me to believe I'm a pathetic bastard who just wants sex but that's not who I am. I devote my entire heart to love and I'd never give anything up for that, but damn, can't I get anything for my sexual side? I feel like staying with her would shut off everything sexually.. but in my love point of view I could live with this girl for the rest of my life. She's told me my sexual side embarrasses her.. she tells me she hates that side of me. It boggles my mind how she has no sexual side. And no, I'm not a raging horny bull all the time. I'm rarely horny at all and I'm very subtle with what I do. I don't push anything if she's not in the mood, but damn, she's never in the mood! I won't brag, but I'm a good looking fellow. My SO tells me how hott/sexy/cute I am everyday in whatever way she does.. but she does not say these things in a way to turn me on at all. I'm just becoming selfless within this all. Read the whole thing if you have time. Cliffs: girl has practically no sexual side, I'm very sexual, I love her to death, I feel a part of me is lonely.