ive been with my girl for about 10 months now. we've always gotten along great...she used to be real promiscuous and horny as fuck when we first started going out. i kinda changed her a little bit and she settled down. lately our sex drive has been real weak...sex is like uh ok get off now. i lose my hard on and shes not feeling it. we both wanna get this straightened out. i feel like its my fault tho. lately i feel like i got depression and anxiety so maybe im inflicting that on her. im also always real horny and cant really control my emotions so she thinks she might be subconciously compensating by not wanting to fuck. shes been sick for the past several days and now shes getting her period so this is really gonna fuck things up for the next week. im doing everything i can...bringing her food if she needs it, taking care of her, and most importantly not talking about sex at all. she said, and i agree with her, that if i act like i dont need sex, she'll want it even more just cuz she cant have it...kinda how it used to be the first couple months we were going out. any ideas??