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  1. crown royal

    crown royal Active Member

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    Hung out with this girl for a few years, fell for her pretty hard, but she had something of a relationship, so was never available. I accepted it, she was off at school, I was traveling working, in one day her boyfriend dumped her, but she got asked out by a guy at a party and they have been dating since november. I was crushed.

    Kinda gotten over it, but she is in town, and her boyfriend came to see her this week. Was hanging out with them - it was uncomfortable, but tolerable. I wasn't too emoed out, I had come to accept the fact that she was more important to me than I to her, and I just let it be.

    But then she started stroking his hair a little like she used to me with me sometimes, and it was my favorite, and I thought I would be sick.:wtc:

    I'll be fine, get over it, but that one instant was a really tough one. Just reenforced that he>me for her, and that I care for her more than she does for me, which is the tough part.

    Just wanted to type it out and vent - thanks for reading, kthxbye.:hsd:
     
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    :hug:

    I'm in a similar situation. Until you find someone to replace her it sucks :( But ya just gotta keep the head high, cuz one day there will be a girl that treats you great. :)
     
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    She just left - she came and hung out at my place tonight. We smoked hookah and talked for a few hours, just sitting around. I had a few cocktails, because we talked about her and her relationships (the ones mentioned above). She doesn't even know.:wtc:
     
  5. the ground folds

    the ground folds rest your trigger on my finger

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    does she know how u feel?
     
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    tell her you like her
     
  7. ware_ru

    ware_ru I know, I know, I'm amazing

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    terrible advice in this thread. don't tell her how you feel unless you plan on losing a friend or permanently making it awkward between the two of you. Go to the vag for advice on girls because some of the people there have actually spoken to girls before and will give you useful advice
     
  8. the ground folds

    the ground folds rest your trigger on my finger

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    right.
     
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    I meant that she obviously doesn't know that subject wasn't one in which I was interested.

    Of course I wouldn't tell her - what would it accomplish?
     
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