FRK No porn or masturbation anymore...

Discussion in 'Vaginarium' started by hotbabe, Feb 6, 2005.

  1. hotbabe

    hotbabe Guest

    Ok, here's what I am thinking. I have really gotten to like porn over the past few months and completely understand why guys like it so much. But I have a bf and I think is affecting my ability to be in the mood for sex. Is that possible? Its like I still get horny but would just rather watch some porn and masturbate right quick. Having sex is such a big ordeal. This worries me cause I used to LOVE sex. I still like it and we still do it but not as often. So i am thinking of never watching porn and maybe never masturbating and seeing if things change. maybe i am just in a slump, but maybe its the porn. Thoughts???
     
  2. BedBunny

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    i think you are overanalyzing, but if you think porn or masturbation is influencing your
    sex life with your bf negatively then by all means stop the outside activity or lessen it.
     
  3. chlywly

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    hmm well not masturbating and not watching porn will no doubt let you concentrate on sex through your relationship and I think thats a great idea, I do this myself lots of times; or I watch porn but dont masturbate....

    The problem is sex has become about the end product or rogasm for you; so you'd rather get over with quick while masturbating...

    Sex loses all appeal, forget about the orgasm and start concentrating on and enjoying the intricate parts, the forplay etc; the passion, romance, love making; and kink ;)

    PROCESS!
     
  4. Watch porn together with your boyfriend? You'll see you won't be in for finishing the movie coz you'll be too busy with each other :)
     
  5. hotbabe

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    we've done that. and its not like i'm obsessed with porn. i used to be horny ALL the time and i would masturbate to porn once every day or two and still have sex a few times a week. now i masturbate maybe once a week and have sex once a week or once in a week and a half or so. so i guess i am just in a slump unless masturbating too much made me not horny anymore. is that possible? sounds dumb but i am just looking for reasons. i want to be horny again!!!!!
     
  6. cuz

    cuz Guest

    your sex drive is always changing, your probably just in a dry spell, definately watch pron wih you bf, i do it all the time with mine and we both love it, its so hot and its kind of like theres someone else in the room having sex at the same time, but not really, its just fun, i recomend it. and if your scared to suggest it to him.... dont be, im sure he will go for it!
     
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