no pill, condom snapped - morning after?

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  1. knx

    knx New Member

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    hey all,

    just need some advice.

    me and my gf decided to take it easy on the sex thing - she's a virgin still, and im not the most experienced guy either.
    lately we've been doing this humping against eachother naked, me wearing a condom. no penetration, just rubbing it.

    today the condom snapped as we were busy. :eek4:

    now, i need some advice based on the followin facts:

    -my penis was not inside, but against the outside when it happened
    -i did not cum, but it was definately not dry inside the condom
    -she does not take the pill
    -she will be having her period in a small week (which reduces the chance of becoming pregnant at this time i was told)

    i said i would like her to take the morning after pill, just to make sure u know.

    then she said i was overreacting.

    i realize the odds of her becoming pregnant are very small, but am i overreacting? please tell me i am :)
     
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  3. orie

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    you are overeacting big time. you weren't even having sex :ugh:
     
  4. BedBunny

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    i think you're safe. relax.
     
  5. Reign

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    Yeah, seriously, the chances of Pre-Cum getting someone pregnant are so slim. Precum is to make sure your clean of all acidic urine before you come so that the sperm don't die. Rarely does it contain actual sperm unless you've like whacked it that day already or something.
     
  6. knx

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    thanks for the advice people, i feel more relaxed now :)
     
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    Once any cum, or pre-cum hits the air its dead. So unless you're inside of her, any cum dripping on her has a very slight chance of getting her pregant. Don't worry =)
     
  8. ej25power

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    Precum actually has more sperm in it than normal cum. Or so says Dr. Drew on loveline.

    If sperm dies once it hits the air, how do sperm banks work? When you jack off into a cup does the sperm not fly through the air?
     
  9. Plasma

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    Why do you even have this conversation?

    Better to be safe than sorry.

    Just take the pill, you will feel better about it later...
     
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    :werd:

    If you want to feel real relief and not be paranoid until she gets her period, though, have her take the morning after pill. Can't hurt.
     
  13. knx

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    well i cant force her to do so :/
     
  14. weakone

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    Don't force her. Just ask her to. It'll calm both of your fears. If she doesn't want to get pregnant, and if she wants to be reassured that she isn't, why wouldn't she take the pill? :confused:
     
  15. pacent

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    The morning after pill fucks with a girls hormones bigtime. She will have irregular periods for weeks/months afterwards. You'll have to deal with crazy mood swings. She'll be spotting all the time. Morning after pill = not fun
     
  16. knx

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    i did ask her to take the pill.

    but she said the odds of her becoming pregnant cuz of this are like less then 1%

    i sure hope she is right... :bowdown:
     
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    You're fine man.
     
  18. Fishbait

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    someone skipped out on Health 101... :hsugh:
     
  19. ej25power

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    If you're so confident in that, why don't you go jack off onto your girlfriends pussy for a couple months...the sperm will die when it hits the air, right? Let me know when she gets pregnant. I'll send you some cigars.
     
  20. Nikolette

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    This isn't completely true as each woman has a different reaction to the morning after pill. I took it once and had no reaction at all, my period was even normal. I hear you may get nausous (spelling?) from it so it's recommended to eat a meal prior to taking the pill. In my opinion, it's worth risking the regularity of your period to be safe rather than sorry. Not everyone will spot all the time...this isnt entirely true. It does effect your hormones but then so do birth control pills and actually, some brands of the morning pill are birth control pills in a higher dose. Each woman has her own reaction to the pill, and the mood swings, spotting, and irregular periods are all side effects that MAY occur but doesn't neccessarily mean they will...I think it's worth it if you think you have a chance of being pregnant..it's either that or an abortion, which is much worse...
     
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    :dunno: difficult man but its better to be safe than sorry
     
  22. Tui Domina

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    I agree that not everyone will have the same physical reaction to the morning after pill but I got to disagree that it doesn't fuck with you....the morning after pill screws your hormones and can do serious demage to your body...that is why its so debatable.
    yes, it's better than getting an abortion but it does not mean you should pop them and expect your body to not be effected.
     
  23. knx

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    woohoo she just got her period :)

    i should be less paranoia next time :big grin:

    thx for the replies alll
     
  24. low20

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    yeah i wouldnt be worried about it..me and my gf do that all the time with no condom....as long as you dont cum on or near her opening u should be fine...
     

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