No Longer Interesting...

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  1. sentient

    sentient New Member

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    Background: Girl and I have been close friends and were FBs before the summer. She's been wanting it to be more and I like her too, so we've been chatting a lot. Was going to ask her out once school starts.

    Prob: Maybe part of it is because we used to be really close friends (talked and hung out a lot), but I have absolutely nothing to say to her anymore. Just feels really routine... Thinking back, the hooking up started to seem like that right before the summer too :dunno:

    With other girls there's always been a spark/unfamiliarity/excitement initially, but the talking/hooking up would get boring after a couple of weeks (pretty sure the girls felt similarly). Same thing is happening in this case, but the difference is I really like her still...

    TBH, this is my first non-short term FB/hookup, but pretty sure this isn't the way it's supposed to be :squint:
     
  2. MattThom01

    MattThom01 New Member

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    the joy of being FWB is you're not committed to her. If you're bored with her, take it back to just being friends.
     
  3. zmiller91

    zmiller91 New Member

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    Matt, are you going to UI next year?


    Sorry about the mad off topic.
     
  4. MattThom01

    MattThom01 New Member

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    nope...I graduated college back in '06. I work at the hospital though.
     
  5. zmiller91

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    What do you work as? My aunt is head of infectious disease, i think, her name is Rachel Miller, and my uncle is a cardiovascular surgeon, his name is Francis Miller.

    Know any of them?
     
  6. sentient

    sentient New Member

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    lol thx guys

    the bigger problem i guess is that i don't feel capable of maintaining longer, deeper relationships. i still like her, but i just don't feel that entertaining and spontaneous anymore after a couple of weeks usually... it's been longer than that w/ her actually, so i'm making progress? :)

    in the past it hasn't been a problem since i wasn't really ever seriously interested for more than a couple of weeks.
     

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