No interest in relationships?

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  1. korverftw

    korverftw New Member

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    I'm a college student in my early 20's and was wondering if it's normal to have absolutely 0 interest in relationships. I like talking to, flirting with and hooking up with cute girls, and I get freaked out when I think about not being able to flirt with any girl I see because I have a girlfriend. I think it has to do with the fact that I've gotten bored in every relationship I've ever been in to the point where I just don't like the girl anymore and break up with her for no specific reason, just because the spark is gone.

    All my friends HAVE to have a girlfriend constantly and I just don't understand it. Am I just weird? I can definitely see living the bachelor lifestyle until I die.
     
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    Amanda Ann New Member

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    No, you're 20. It's normal.
     
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    Enjoy it while you can before you get loaded down with "real life" and regret missed opportunities.
     
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  5. korverftw

    korverftw New Member

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    I suppose. 95% of older single guys I know are completely obsessed with finding a woman.
     
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    whats older mean? Im 30 and a relationship still seems like 11ty billion times more pain in the ass then benefit.

    I -love- dating women. Before you gf emup girls are awesome
     
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    Your opinion might change when you meet someone you really like.
     
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    :werd: I might get desperate once I hit 40. Still more than 10 years from that happening (subtle "I'm still in my late 20's" comment :mamoru: ).

    The initial couple of dates are great fun because it's someone new. But after that I don't seem to have any lasting enthusiasm. When I find a good one, then that will change.. obviously.. but living my own life and not compromising just to be with someone is better.
     
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    :werd:

    if i'm with a girl my age now I feel like I should be out partying a lot or driving a fanboi car and that's simply not me now
     
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    I've always been in relationships and for the past 8 months I've really worked on staying alone and finding who out I really am.

    The result is I like relationships
     
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    not saying my lifestyle is better or yours is better. I wouldn't worry about it man, just let it come naturally...I don't think you are weird, you are who you are.
     
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    there is nothing wrong with you. doesnt matter that you are 20 or if you were 30.

    some people like being in RS, some dont. doesnt make one or the other weird.
     
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    Why stick with one when you can have MANY!
     
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    came in to say this. I went from being 100% against relationships to 100% for the span of one day.
     
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    Disregard females, acquire currency.

    Nothing weird about it.
     
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