No interest in dating. Is it normal at all?

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  1. korverftw

    korverftw New Member

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    I'm a 21 year old straight male. I love flirting and messing around but I just have no interest at all in having a girlfriend or dating like my peers do. I've had multiple long relationships and both sucked the life out of me when it comes to women. I just don't get any joy out of relationships at all anymore. All my friends tell me I'm crazy but it makes perfect sense to me. I was thinking maybe it's because I am unemployed (laid off, can't find a job anywhere) and live at home and I'm embarrassed because of that.
     
  2. Cobra Commander

    Cobra Commander OT Supporter

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    perfectly normal bro

    i'm almost the exact same.
     
  3. wolfskymoon

    wolfskymoon Guest

    I feel the same way. I hate being alone , but at the same time I unintentionally make sure that I don't let women near me =/. Maybe you have more important things in your head? like career etc which actually matter.
     
  4. Bob Brown

    Bob Brown bewshit, bewshit, bewshit

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    yea, it's normal.
     
  5. Thelonius

    Thelonius New Member

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    I go through different phases.
     
  6. Consider yourself lucky.
     
  7. Deborah

    Deborah Seeing is believing, but I don't want to know.

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    yes, if you do, unreal player is a very good option:big grin:
     
  8. Dahlia

    Dahlia Active Member

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    :rofl::rofl::rofl::rofl: Good one deb.


    Of course if you don't have any interesting in dating then you MUST be gay! :hsugh:

    Like everyone says, people go through phases and there is nothing wrong with that.
     
  9. THoC

    THoC New Member

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    phase that im sure lots of people have gone through. ive never been though one personally.
     
  10. MissKitty

    MissKitty If squats were easy they'd be called 'Your Mum' OT Supporter

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    The moment I was over dating and men I found the man I plan on spending the rest of my life with. Life has a funny sense of humour :rofl:

    Perfectly normal :)
     
  11. chica&buddies

    chica&buddies Active Member

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    agreed.

    i've been through that phase a few times, and more often than not, it's after i get out of a relationship. i refer to it as my 'penis ennui' stage :mamoru:
     
  12. tomohr

    tomohr look again! OT Supporter

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    21 is a perfect age to meet as many ladies as possible... then when you are finally settling down you won't have to waste your time trying to figure out exactly what you want like most people do when they waste all of their time with one person that in the long run ends up sucking at everything
     
  13. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    Yep.

    You're wiped out by 2 shitty relationships and need some time off. Fuck what your friends think. Go your own way and maybe you'll end up meeting a girl who changes your mind in the future.
     

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