No fun during sex

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  1. JohnJohnJohnson

    JohnJohnJohnson Effetely Sipping My Latte OT Supporter

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    My female friend doesn't get off during sex. She gets off during oral and when she gets fingered (G-spot) ... but never during sex. The only exception is if she has clitoris stimulation, which she can do better when she's not fucking. The actual having sex part (the vaginal penetration) doesn't feel good (or bad) to her at all.
     
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    do you have past exp. with your sex skills and techniques?

    remember to keep in mind its about how you use it, so dont blame the size. try a little foreplay and teasing could also help? im no sex expert, maybe the elites can chime in
     
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    some women dont get off from intercourse... vaginal stimulation only. thats just the way it is...

    if you can get her off during foreplay, thats fine. if you know she gets off from sex and clit stimulation, keep on doing that... find positions that will help you. sooner or later she should enjoy it.
     
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    Either can I only on clitorial stimulation, Masturbation has ruined me!:(:eek4:
     
  6. JohnJohnJohnson

    JohnJohnJohnson Effetely Sipping My Latte OT Supporter

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    It's definitely not the size factor, as she is very new to sex and initially was waaay too tight. I don't know. She can get off with a finger inside her, and no clitoral stimulation ... but not a cock.
     
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    To be honest, this sounds almost mental on her part. Then again, alot of sex is mental.

    However, girls that cant climax from vaginal intercourse arent uncommon. You may just have your work cut out w/ this one. Try different positions.
     
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    all i can suggest is yoga or try the other g-spot man (if that's not illegal in your state, but then again, who's gonna find out right?)
     
  9. Wildwood*Flower

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    Hey, guess what! You have a NORMAL "female friend." Women who don't orgasm through intercourse are the majority.


    "Can Women Experience Orgasm From Intercourse Alone?
    Yes, but experts like Shere Hite, author of the Hite Report: A Nationwide Study of Female Sexuality (Dell Publishing, 1977), say that only about 30 percent of women orgasm through penile thrusting alone. It's not for lack of ability or desire--it s simply a matter of anatomy. Contrary to popular belief, the vagina is not the epicenter of female sexual pleasure. That would be the clitoris, which is loaded with nerve endings (as is a man's penis). During vaginal intercourse, the clitoris gets little or no direct contact, while the penis is constantly stimulated (who said life is fair?). This can be remedied, however, by trying other sexual positions (such as "woman on top"), or by using manual, oral, or other forms of stimulation that offer more direct and consistent clitoral contact."
     
  10. JohnJohnJohnson

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    Well, that's from a 77 article; and her G-Spot orgasms are WAY. WAYYYY stronger than her clitoral ones. But somehow I can't hit that with my dick.
     
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    my gf is the same way. :hs: it sucks.
     

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