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  1. yoV6cam

    yoV6cam Big AL "Boss of The Bosses"

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    The Nine Most Dangerous Mistakes You Make With Women.....And What To Do About It-

    MISTAKE ..1:Being To Much Of A "Nice Guy" Have you ever noticed that attractive women never seem to be attracted to "Nice Guys" Ofcourse you have. I am sure you've had attractive female friends that always seemed to date "jerks"....but for some reason they were never romantically interested in YOU. Whats going on here? Its actually very simple...... Women dont base their choices of men on how "nice" a guy is.They choose the men they do because they feel a powerful GUT LEVEL ATTRACTION for them. And guess what? Being nice doesnt make a women FEEL that powerful ATRRACTION. And being NICE doesnt make a woman CHOOSE you. I realize that this doesnt make a lot of logical sense,and its hard to ACCEPT.....but get over it Until you accept this FACT and begin to act on it,you'll NEVER have the success with women that you want

    MISTAKE..2: Trying To "Convince Her To Like You" What do most guys do when they meet a woman that they REALLY like.....but she's just NOT INTERESTED? Right!They try to "convince" the woman to feel differently. Well, I have news for you.....YOU WILL NEVER CHANGE HOW A WOMAN "FEELS" WHEN IT COMES TO ATTRACTION! Never,ever,EVER. You cannot CONVINCE a woman to feel fifferently about you with "logic and reasoning". Think about it. If a woman doesnt "feel it" for you,how in the world do you expect to change that FEELING by being "reasonable" with her? But we all do it. When a woman just isnt interested,we beg,plead,chase,and do our best to change her mind. Bad idea.One that will never work.

    MISTAKE ..3: Looking To Her For Approval Or Permission In out desire to please women(which we mistakenly think will make them like us),us guys are always doing things to get a woman's "approval" or "permission" Another HORRIBLE idea. Women are NEVER attracted to the types of men who kiss up to them....EVER. Dont get me wrong here. You dont have to treat women BADLY for them to like you. But if you think that treating woman well means"always getting her approval and permission for things",think again. You will never succeed by looking for the approval.Women actually get ANNOYED at men who seek their approval. Doubt me?Just ask any attractive woman if WUSSY guys who chase her around and want her approval annoy her....

    MISTAKE ..4: Trying To "Buy" Her Affection With Food And Gifts How many times have you taken a woman out to a nice dinner,bought her gifts and flowers,and had her REJECT you for someone who didnt treat her even HALF as well as you did? Well guess what? Its only NATURAL when this happens..... Thats right,I said NATURAL. When you do these things,you send a clear message:"I dont think you'll like me for who I am ,so I'm going to try to buy your attention and affection." Your good intensions usually come across to women as over-compensation fot insecurity,and weak attempts at manipulation.Thats right,I said that women see this as MANIPULATION.

    MISTAKE ..5: Sharing "How You Feel" To Early In The Relationship With Her Another huge and unfortunate mistake that most men make with women is sharing how they :feel" too early on. Attractive women are rare.And they get ALOT of attention from men.Most men dont realize this,but attractive women are being approached in one way or another ALL THE TIME.An attractive woman is often approached several times a DAy by men who are interested.This translates into dozens of times per week,and often HUNDREDS of times per month.And guess what?Attractive women have usually dated alot of men.Thats right,they have EXPERIENCE.They know what to expect.And one thing that turns an attractive woman off and sends her running away faster than just about anything is a guy who starts saying"You know,I really,REALLY like you"after one or two dates.This signals to the woman that you are just like all the other guys who fall for her too fast and cant control themselves.Dont do it,lean back.RELAX...there's a much better way.

    MISTAKE..6: Not "Getting" How Attraction Works For Women Women are very fifferent from men when it comes to ATTRACTION.You need to accept this fact,and deal with it.When a man sees a beautiful,young,sexy woman,he INSTANTLY feels a sexual attraction.But does the same apply for women?Do women feel sexual attraction to men based mostly on looks?Or is something else going on?Well,after studying this topic for over five full years now,I can tell you that women usually have their"attraction mechanisma"triggered by OTHER than looks.Have you ever noticed that you see alot more average and unattractive men with beautiful women than the other way around?Think about it.Women are more attracted to certain qualities in men...and they are attracted to the way a man makes them FEEL than they are to looks alone.If you know how to use your body language and communication correctly,you can make women feel the same kind of powerful sexual attraction to you that YOU feel when you see a hot sexy young woman.But its not an accident.You have to learn how to do this,and any guy can learn how....

    MISTAKE ..7:Thinking That It Takes Money And Looks. One of the most common mistakes that guys make is giving up before they've even gotten started....because they think that attractive women are only interested in men who have looks and money..or guys who are a certain height...or guys who are certain age.And sure,there are some women who are only interested in these things...but you shouldnt even bother with them.Most women are far more interested in a mans personality than his wallet or his looks.There are personality traits that attrac women like a magnet....And if you learn what they are and how to use them,you can be one of these guys.YOU DO NOT have to settle for a woman just because you arent rich,tall,or handsome.

    MISTAKE ..8:Giving Away All Of Your Power To Women Earlier I mentioned that its a mistake to look to a woman for approval or permission.Well,another similar tactic that alot of guys use is GIVING AWAY THEIR POWER to women.Said differently,guys try to get women to like them by doing whatever the woman wants.Another bad idea....Women are NEVER attracted to men that they can walk all over...Women arent attracted to WUSSIES!!!!

    MISTAKE ..9:Not Knowing EXACTLY What To Do In Each Type Of Situation With Women Now I;m going to blow your mind....A woman ALWAYS knows what you're thinking.Women are approximately TEN TIMES better than men at reading body language.Thats TEN TIMES......I know,it might be hard to accept.But for example,if you"re out on a date with a woman,and you want to kiss her,she knows it.And if you dont know exactly HOW to kiss her,and you just sit there looking at her and getting nervous,she wont help you!And this goes for ALL aspects of women and dating...Approaching a woman,getting her number ,asking her out,kissing her,getting physical.....everything.If you dont know how to do it in each situation,you will probably srew it up...and LOSE EVERYTHING.And you KNOW it.It is VITALLY important that you know EXACTLY how to go from one step to the next with a woman.....from the first meeting,all the way to the bedroom...
     
  2. Ty Webb

    Ty Webb You don't have to go to college. This isn't Russia

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    there's some truth to the posting...
     
  4. Legend Zero

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    lol.. some of them do make sense, but i wish more punctuation was used. Granted i am not the best, it was kind of hard to read. O well..good advice, and thank you!
     
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    add to that sex during period
     
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    Riconosuave New Member

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    I learned the hard way. Made most of those mistakes at some point in my life.
     
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  7. 1, 2, 3, 4, 5 and 9 are the downfall of me.
     
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    PuppyCat O.T. Mom

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    What a bunch of garbage.
     
  9. yoV6cam

    yoV6cam Big AL "Boss of The Bosses"

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    for the record I didn't write this...otherwise i'd have better punctuation.:fawk:
     
  10. Legend Zero

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    LOL atleast you got some going in your favor..all them downfall me! :rofl:
     
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    #1 is partially true.. you can be nice and charming while retaining your powerful alphamale image without being a douchebag.. now obviously JUST being nice wont buy you a way into her heart
     
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    Midgetized Don't mess with Douche Cat

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    I agree with all of them except #9.
     
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    #10 Not Pulling Out. "Oh god its so good. I don't care. She won't get pregnant. Just this one time. Condoms from now on. Oh god... aaaahhhhunnnnnnngggggggggggg....", pant pant siiiiggggghhhh plop.
     
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    newsroom_can Canada eh?

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    Most of them are so true... especially mistake 4.
     
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    Guz200sx The man who does more than he is paid for will soo

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    I got that same crap in an e-mail the other day :ugh:
     

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