Okay... I have a slight problem. It's not a consistent problem. But, when this problem rears it's ugly face, it is DEVASTATING!! Occasionally, when in the bedroom, I have a hard time keeping an erection, or even establishing one to begin with. I have had a hard time talking with people, including doctors, because it is rather embarrassing and I am only 24 years old. I know that it doesn't help matters when I begin thinking things like is it going to happen or what if it happens? If I do this, it only makes matters worse. But, once it starts there is no reversing it. By that time I am so focused on the epic failure that I am not even enjoying myself. This doesn't happen very often, but it does happen. Like tonight, we began with foreplay and then, for whatever reason, those thoughts crossed my mind. So, what I am asking for is a little bit of advice. I am sure that I am not the only person that this has happened to and I am sure that it is more of a psychological battle than a physical one. So, guys, how do you handle this major blow to the ego? Is there anything that your SO can do to help? Ladies, chime in too if you have dealt with this before? And, please, no one say Viagra, Cialis, or other ED drug. They only work if these problems I am stating are not present. Like I said, it is major embarrassing and it sometimes leads to my girlfriend thinking that maybe I'm not attracted to her anymore. Give a newbie a hand. Thanks.