Haven't posted here much but I know this is where to find all the people who don't suck at sex so thought I'd throw this out and see if I can get some feedback. Went "toy shopping" with my wife on our anniversary and came home with a new rabbit vibe (doc johnson model... expensive but it seems to do some nice tricks!) and a string of semi-soft anal beads. We've done anal play (in both directions) in the past with mixed results from "ok" to "whooooooooooooooo!" (never negative response) but the beads are a new one for us... figured we'd give 'em a shot. These ones max out maybe a little smaller than a golf ball. Decided to try them on her that night, got her nice and worked up, lubed thoroughly, they went in nicely up to maybe the 3rd biggest, she seemed to be doing pretty well with the general sensation so I moved in for a little more oral and eventually brought a vibe into play, finally right as she was just breaking into what seemed like a really powerful orgasm I slowly tugged the beads out, one at a time, she bucked and screamed really hard and then abruptly just froze... in debriefing she said it felt great but it was almost like the anal sensation kept her from "finishing" her orgasm. Later she described it frankly as "it was good at first but it felt like I was cumming and shitting at the same time." I can see why that might be sort of a frightening sensation on our nice sheets. She seems open to try again but I wanted to ask the pros out there if there are any pointers as to how to make the most of these? I know she's very anal-sensitive if properly stimulated... these got a definite reaction but I'm not sure if I was too abrupt or if it was just a new sensation that she wasn't prepared to deal with. Haven't tried on me yet so I can't quite relate to what she was feeling. Thanks in advance for any input.