LGBT new to the closet

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  1. cosmocrat

    cosmocrat New Member

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    during middleschool, i was openly gay... because I really thought i was. I had several girlfriends and was known school-wide as "the lesbian". (note: nothing more than kissing had ever occured then) well, i honestly thought that was what i was.. flat out. a lesbian.
    however, when i reached middle school, a friendship with a guy turned serious.. and i realized i had been surpressing my male thoughts. I dated him for almost 2 1/2 years before we split, and then went on to date other males.
    Not to say that I wasn't the a-typical teen who had no idea what they wanted, or what they found attractive.. but I surpressed my feelings toward women, and let the "lesbian" brand die out.
    Once i met that highschool lover, I was annoyed by just how "popular" it seemed to be for girls to be bisexual.. and I was ashamed.However, over the past few years, as highschool has come and gone.. I now see the bridge of the two. I have been dating a male for the past year or so off and on, and I was open with him the past few months towards my strong attraction to both sexs...both on a physical and a mental state. It feels really good not to feel like i have to pigeon hole myself anymore to like either males, or females, not both.

    I'm Jessica.. I'll be nineteen friday.. and I am bisexual.:wavey:
     
  2. Teh_Sponge

    Teh_Sponge Hey, I got a sub now...

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    If that's you in your av... :eek3::eek3:
     
  3. cosmocrat

    cosmocrat New Member

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    it is:hsd:
     
  4. Jamien

    Jamien Sabotage. Overthrow. Disobey and Demolish.

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    :wavey: Hello
     
  5. boris yeltsin

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    Welcome to the Closet. I'm OT's 11tybillionth gay guy who almost never posts in the closet but retreats to here when people make fun of him too much. :run:
     
  6. jordan04

    jordan04 The seeds of love have taken hold, and if we won't

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    howdy lady
     
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    Welcome to the Closet! Nice to have another female in here.
     
  8. Ivy Mike

    Ivy Mike New Member

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    OMGhi2U!

    You're a hottay!!! I think I found someone else to lust after for a little while.
     
  9. Jamien

    Jamien Sabotage. Overthrow. Disobey and Demolish.

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  10. Sam Gamgee

    Sam Gamgee Every tool is a weapon if you hold it right. OT Supporter

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    Welcome!! You'll find a nice retreat here... But keep looking around the other subforums on this site for some other fun discussions...

    :wavey:
     
  11. Esp69st

    Esp69st Who's talking about OIL... bitch you cooking

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    Hi my I'm ed and I wish my g/f was BI.... :sadwavey:
     
  12. NOVAJock

    NOVAJock Modded & Underrated

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    And we wish you were bi. :x:
     
  13. Esp69st

    Esp69st Who's talking about OIL... bitch you cooking

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    :ugh: ................................... :naughty:
     
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    NOVAJock Modded & Underrated

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  15. MapleLeaf

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    I would be happy to perform the bi test the next time I am in Boston. :wiggle:
     
  16. Esp69st

    Esp69st Who's talking about OIL... bitch you cooking

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    REALLY... :x:
     
  17. Notorious R.I.E.

    Notorious R.I.E. Queen Bee

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    thanks all :)
     
  19. MapleLeaf

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    Why of course. I come to Boston to meet with one of my clients. For you though, I could make a special trip. :drool:
     
  20. AstroGirl

    AstroGirl If I don't respond it's because I have severe ADD

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    Grrrrrr
     
  21. AstroGirl

    AstroGirl If I don't respond it's because I have severe ADD

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    Hiiiiiiiiii :)
     
  22. Ivy Mike

    Ivy Mike New Member

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    I still lust for you, but you are so elusive...like an itch on the back you just can't reach. ;)

    Anytime you feel like re-focusing my lust on you, just post another eye pic.
    :wackit:

    Besides, everybody knows that the mind will never be monogamous.
     
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  23. AstroGirl

    AstroGirl If I don't respond it's because I have severe ADD

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    New pic in the pics thread, I just think you are a sucker for blue eyes ;) She is cute though, I would have to agree.
     
  24. Ivy Mike

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    Yes, I am a sucker for blue eyes, but I still maintain that yours are still some of the nicest I have ever seen.

    I would love to see them in person someday.:x:
     
  25. Esp69st

    Esp69st Who's talking about OIL... bitch you cooking

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