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  1. paranoidandroid

    paranoidandroid New Member

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    i need some dating advice. im going to get the courage to ask this girl out, but i dont exactly know what to do. im sure its obvious to all of you, but im new to it. i dont know how formal i am supposed to be such as paying for the girl or whatever. I guess I am just looking for examples of what you guys have done on dates and what you talked about during the date etc. etc. Thanks.
     
  2. Deadhead9150

    Deadhead9150 Banned

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    If it's his first date don't you think moving to taking the top off is a little gung ho? Let sparky try for a goodnight kiss first before he's taking tops off.
     
  3. paranoidandroid

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    i know the gist of dating, im looking for specific examples of what to do/talk about.
     
  4. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    First, come up with a date idea.

    Read these threads for help:
    http://forums.offtopic.com/showthread.php?t=3148649
    http://forums.offtopic.com/showthread.php?t=3360933

    Second, once you do that either ask her in person (preferred) or on the phone. NO TEXTING OR INSTANT MESSAGING OF ANY KIND ALLOWED. Ask her on the date you came up withand also have a day in mind. Never just say
    want to go out some time?" It's too open-ended and will not actually get you a set date.

    Once she accepts the date you can worry about how to pay, etc.
     
  5. paranoidandroid

    paranoidandroid New Member

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    i keep expecting you to say "and by the way.......you're welcome!"
     
  6. DrK_Mrk_iV

    DrK_Mrk_iV OT Supporter

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    That's where you're going to bomb. A date with a girl... Is really just a slightly more formal way of hanging out with someone, albiet they be the opposite sex.

    Talk to girl. Just bullshit, say funny things. Don't be like a jackass but don't be too shy. Get number, go to music venue, bowling alley, bar (my favorites).
     
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    Deadhead9150 Banned

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    Maybe my sarcasm detector isn't firing lately.:mamoru:
     
  8. ForgottenSpiral

    ForgottenSpiral Hope and Irony OT Supporter

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    Normally I would suggest coffee and just get to know the other person, but you have to be at least semi-comfortable having a casual conversation with a stranger in order to pull that off. :dunno:
     
  9. paranoidandroid

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    coffee makes me poop. are you suggesting i poop on this date?
     
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    just_another_on New Member

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    Use milk instead of cream:mamoru:
     
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    i really like these two

    they make it SOO easy to open up.. be yourself.. talk about anything and let loose.

    Everytime I go bowling with someone.. most of the time they say "wow i forgot how much fun that is!" win win
     
  12. ForgottenSpiral

    ForgottenSpiral Hope and Irony OT Supporter

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    I think you are making coffee with the wrong kind of beans.
     
  13. Ford4Life

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    How old are you? Would help with some of the suggestions, someone who is 16 isn't going to do the same things on a first date as someone who is in thier 20's.
     
  14. paranoidandroid

    paranoidandroid New Member

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    almost 25 years old.
     
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    go out for a dinner, not too expensive, pay the bill, then go do whatever you want (play pool, bar, club, walk around outside, comedy club, etc.) Do not go to the movies. If you see an opportunity during the date, make a move. If not, make a move at the end. The girl should not be offended by it and if she doesn't want to do anything the first date she will politely decline.


    edit: This way you have some alone/talking time and activity time together.
     
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    :bowrofl::bowrofl::bowrofl:
     
  17. paranoidandroid

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    im not going out to dinner and paying for a girl. that is just crazy dropping forty bucks on a date. im not asking out natalie portman.

    im thinking shooting pool, mini golf, and bowling are all great ideas though. this thread was mainly asking for specific things that happened on dates you guys went on..... i guess things I should be prepared for. thanks for the help though guys.
     
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    be prepared for a lot of small talk. hopefully either you or her know how to carry a convo.
    be prepared for some moments of awkward silences. its pretty normal.

    then you'll have to decide what to do when the date is over... hug? kiss?
     
  19. Bob Brown

    Bob Brown bewshit, bewshit, bewshit

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    I'd pay $40 for Natalie Portman !!!!


    and if you were looking for just ideas, then you should've just looked at beer's links. done.
     
  20. paranoidandroid

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    i should reiterate that I was looking for specific shit in this thread. i know where to take a girl, i am just wondering about stuff that happened on dates with other people. Stories I guess of what people have done on dates that went right and went wrong.
     
  21. Ford4Life

    Ford4Life Guest

    Are you related to Falconer?
     
  22. paranoidandroid

    paranoidandroid New Member

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    yes.
     
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    Just seems like a troll thread to me :o
     
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