New girlfriend doesn't stack up to the ex, causing problems in bed

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  1. Hym3n

    Hym3n New Member

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    Ex cheats on me, leave her. She was pretty damn good looking, had a great body.

    With a new girl, very attractive, much more interested in her personality, still a hot little skinny bitch, but doesn't have the same curves as my ex, and doesn't have the same experience either... simply doesn't know how to work what she's got.

    What I'm finding lately is that because I was so spoiled on my ex, that I'm having a hard time getting and maintaining an erection with the new girl, and it's getting embarassing. I'm 18 years old, never had this problem before (generally quite the opposite), and I'd like to resort to something other than Viagra/Cialis to fix this...

    any ideas guys?

    thanks!
     
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    Mojo New Member

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    i know its too late, but i think you would need to get over your ex completely before dating anyone else. i tried that and i just became more depressed/fustrated.

    shitty advice but thats all i can say:hsd:
     
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    unless he's thinking about his ex while he's fuckin his new gf:hsughno:
     
  4. maskednegator

    maskednegator Kosmonaut, best we've got...

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    so it's your new chick's fault that you can't maintain an erection? i think a far more likely scenario is one in which you are unable to perform sexually with this new girl because you are still hung up about your ex. this seems obvious to me as an outsider because of the way you phrased your problem. it seems that your problem exists not as a simple issue of the two of you not clicking in bed, but rather one in which your new girl fails to measure up to your last.
     
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    Hym3n New Member

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    Cool, thanks for the comments! Probably true, I find that when I think about my ex it helps.. but that's not really something I want to be doing when I'm in bed with someone else. So what am I to do? I don't have feelings for the ex anymore, and don't want this girl to just be a "rebound" to help get my mind off of her, so how am I supposed to go about losing that attraction for her without up and fucking yet another girl?
     
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    its not as easy as it seems. if you're still hung up about your ex, the only thing that will help is time. in the meantime, just have fun with your new girl, don't compare her to your ex, they are two different people.
     
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    If she's inexperienced, see it as an opportunity to make her into what you want ;)
     

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