Everything with the new girl is going pretty well except in the sex area. We have talked about BC in the past brielfy since we were talking about past sexual relationship stuff. We have had sex only once,but i have a major concern. Im on of those people who dont trust a condom to prevent pregnacny, especially since the facts are pretty upseting of how good a condom work. She doesnt like the issue of BC because of what most girls say. It messes your period up etc etc. I dont want to get in a big arguement about this, but im kinda uncomfortable having sex with her often cause of this problem. I dont want to ruin the relationship,but ill admit im quite paranoid.