New Girl + New Vagina = UGH

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  1. DOBERMAN

    DOBERMAN New Member

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    I was dating my ex for 1.5 years before we broke up and by that point our sex life was really good. I would be able to go for hours while she would get off multiple times per "session"...

    Now I ran into a problem with my new girl. We started dating 2 months ago, but the sex didnt come till last month. So here we are, me thinking that since I was able to hold my own with the ex I would do fine... I was wrong. We start going at it and 3 fucking min later im done :ugh2:

    Needless to say, I would not be making this thread if things would have gotten better since. The longest Ive been able to last with her has been 15 min and its not improving :squint:

    Halp?
     
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    DOBERMAN New Member

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    :rofl:
     
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    sophocles New Member

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    dont focus on the actual end

    in your head just think about making it longer and watch her more, try to make sure she is enjoying it
    then when you can see shes been taking care of let her do the same for you
    always worked for me, unless the girl cant reciprocate youll have a quality love life
    and if she picks up on what your doing she will stop yo uand go after you and it becomes fun
    also switch positions often and do start the thrust for the finish line too early
     
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    DOBERMAN New Member

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    No problem with getting hard... I just dont like the fact that Ive gone from lasting a long time to this. I mean she hasn't told me anything, but I dont want it to get to the point where she does :hs:
     
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    DOBERMAN New Member

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    I also think its in my head. Maybe its because she is still new to me and Im not over her being my gf and not some random fuck.

    Thanks for the advice though.
     
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    sophocles New Member

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    lol i sometimes look at it more like a workout unfortunately and get really into doing crazy shit
    i think thats fun though
    maybe it works for you
     
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    i know exactly what you mean. every time i have had sex with a new girl, i have came very fast the first 2-3 times and after that i go back to normal. Its just in your head.
     
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    Need more details. What positions are you guys using? Do you think she feels tighter? Are you thinking about baseball/your mom/math?
     
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    Mostly different variations of Missionary along with some doggy style and her being on top.

    I tired thinking about all those other things, but when I got to my mom it stopped being hard :rofl:
     
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    Tonight was a good night :wavey:

    Thanks for the help... OT comes through again.
     
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    need more alcohol.
     
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    trudat cervPun

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    :werd:
     
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    Using a condom?? i find i last heaps longer with a dinger... although I don't enjoy it nearly as much as i do without. I just use the condom for a while till my GF has come a few times, whip it off, and then just "race for the finish line" hahaha!!
     
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    whackoff before you meet up with her. you'll last longer.
     
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    you'll last longer but no juice.

     
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    timmay556 Jibilar

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    I do that for a new girl but I still have juice just not as much. Just do it like an hour or so before you go out/know you are going to do it.
     
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    better if u let it build up all week and open the gates:) yum
     
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    DOBERMAN New Member

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    This thread went way off topic :rofl:
     
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    DOBERMAN New Member

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    I dont know who Yail is, but ill try this squeezing stuff :)

    Spasibo :wavey:

    EDIT: "Darogaia" is for a female. "Daragoi" is for male
     
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    Droopynuts New Member

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    I'm different for some reason. When I meet a new chick it takes me literally forever to get off, sometimes it doesn't even happen. The more frequently I sleep with someone, the more comfortable I get, hence the quicker I cum.

    I'm sure it has to do with performance anxiety, but you can imagine how embarassing it is to bring a new girl back to your place, fuck for a long time, then have to stop without cumming. Its a very difficult explanation to give to an insecure girl while procuring moar sexy time in the near future.
     
  21. touchofsleep

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    honestly, girls don't like it being THAT long because we start to get sore. 15 mins is almost perfect. If she didn't like it she wouldn't be with you, so don't sweat it
     
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    :)
     
  23. Coottie

    Coottie BOOMER......SOONER OT Supporter

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    lol my ex used to actually complain that I took too long. Like 30 mins was too long....she wanted me to bust a nut quickly so she felt like I was "REALLY" attracted to her. When I took longer, she said she sort of wondered what was wrong.

    Fuck...ain't that some shit. If we're too quick they complain, if we're too long, they complain. That's just too much pressure! lol
     
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    In my opinion, you must always have a backup. You have an orgasm first? Oh well...learn how to give oral sex, this makes almost every girl happy.
     
  25. MichelleLeAnne

    MichelleLeAnne My Bunny's a Carpet Muncher

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    Make sure you give her lots of 4play first. If you can get her to come once, twice, or more just by eating her out first she won't care if the sex is quick.
     

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