hey everyone a friend referred me here to offtopic.. having some major trouble. I'll try to sum it up as quick as possible Worked with this girl for a month or so. Light chit chat and I began to like her more and more. Shes 21 i'm 22. I asked her out to tailgate for a football game before we both had work, it went great. Then took her to dinner about 4 days later and she stayed the night. 2 weeks later we are dating. 3 weeks after we start dating (today) all is going great except for one thing. She is crazy for sex and I haven't given it to her yet. I'm a virgin and she's had multiple relationship over the years (absolutely no stranger to sex). due to school i only see her maybe 2 or 3 times a week and the last few weeks she's wanted to fuck when we go out and i'm just not ready. she straight up tells me she wants me in her. but when it comes down to it i'm so fucking aprehensive it's ridiculous. i've done research the only thing I can think of is performance anxiety. i have no problems jerking off. she says she feels extremely rejected everytime i give her some excuse (its been about 4 or 5 nights now) i've been telling her to be patient but she wants a reason why and i have NO idea what to say. i'm a horny motherfucker and i would love to have sex with her. i know she really likes me but i'm becoming so paranoid now i don't know what to think. i was planning on talking to her tonight about this but shes ignored 2 of my calls already. I feel our relationship would be great all the time (not just some of the time) if i can get over this hump. why i'm being such a bitch i have no idea.