Never done this. Approaching on facebook.

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  1. forgotmyname

    forgotmyname Active Member

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    Months ago some girl sent me a message from some dating site. We exchanged phone numbers and we started talking for a few more months.

    However this didn't go anywhere because my attention for her wasn't quite there.

    Anyways, while checking my facebook, I came upon a wall post from the same girl posting pictures with her friend. Now, you see where this is going. I am mildly interested on her friend and I am wondering how should I approach her.
     
  2. giapia

    giapia Life is 10% what happens to you and 90% how you re

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    tread carefully
     
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    Should I add her or send her a message first.
     
  4. giapia

    giapia Life is 10% what happens to you and 90% how you re

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    is the girl who you exchanged numbers with your only mutual friend?
     
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    I don't understand what you put. Anyways, I sent her a message but didn't add her.
     
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    She asking if the only way you know of said girl is through the girl you met on the dating site. Which I am guessing is a yes.

    Good luck, chances of this working out seem unlikely.
     
  7. Spaceering

    Spaceering I bite.

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    that failed for me every time. strangely enough just randomly adding them worked :eek3:



    but the internet is too fucked up to have any luck if you are a creeper. Almost everyone that uses the internet for such means is a creeper, so get out into real life and do the creeping, or just act normal if thats the standard for you
     
  8. giapia

    giapia Life is 10% what happens to you and 90% how you re

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    if she's a hot and shallow girl with 1000+ friends, chances are high that she'll add you as a friend and chances of her responding to a message would increase as opposed to you just sending her a message first
     
  9. forgotmyname

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    I don't know, I can't see her friend's list.

    However, I asked her about that girl and she said, "she wants to stay single like me" :hsugh:

    So I know I am not going to get shit from her.
     
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    I know. Better to be a real life creeper than an online creeper.
     
  11. Spaceering

    Spaceering I bite.

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    cuz in real life you get the :ugh:

    online you get ignored or blocked, banned, w/e
     
  12. giapia

    giapia Life is 10% what happens to you and 90% how you re

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    or she's playing hard to get :mamoru:

    plus, just because you're single doesn't mean you're not up for casual fucking :dunno:
     
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  14. giapia

    giapia Life is 10% what happens to you and 90% how you re

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    aw, it's all pink and everything :hay:
     
  15. forgotmyname

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    Come over to CT for a weekend. :mamoru:
     
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    Even if that is true, what does that have to do with banging her? :confused:

    To answer your question, simply get her number AND CALL HER
     
  17. giapia

    giapia Life is 10% what happens to you and 90% how you re

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    what's in ct? :hsugh:
     
  18. BlazinBlazer Guy

    BlazinBlazer Guy Witness to The De-Evolution of Mankind.

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    I wouldn't necessarily agree with that anymore. Now days people are so obsessed with their internet contacts and social networking as opposed to actual human interaction that I think more and more "normal" people are having to resort to the internet route of making initial contact.

    You just have to know how to not come across as a creeper (not as hard as it might seem to some as long as you keep it direct and to the point, and don't try making any comments that could be misconstrued due to lack of vocal inflection or body language).
     
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    Well the OP is fucked then. Which unfortunately means he is just going to continue trolling OT 24/7 since he has nothing else to do with his time :wtcj:
     
  20. Ep

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    I met a girl through facebook but I wasn't looking for anyone- I met her mother who does wine tastings and she pimped me out to her daughter haha.

    It wasn't a terrible experience. I took her out to dave and busters because I didn't feel like doing dinner and we had a pretty good time. I realized her body in person wasn't really what I wanted, she was WAY too skinny and way too short. So we only lasted 2-3 dates
     
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    Yeah whats in CT. I live here and don't even want anyone to come here. Its super boring.
     
  22. forgotmyname

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    :hsugh:
     
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    ouch :o
     
  24. XaPU!M

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    I wish you luck in getting a girl because then you'd have something else to do with your time other then ruining threads all day on OT. Unfortunately it's not going to happen :hsd:
     
  25. forgotmyname

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    Bro, you are always stalking me. Quit it. :hsugh:
     

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