As much as this statement is against all the "laws" of seduction, a friend of mine, who is a natural, tells me to never ever ask for her number. "Give her your number instead," he says. I asked him why, and he tells me when you ask for her number, you don't know if she will answer, if she's busy, if she can't hang out... Also you always make these "plans" on when to call. Instead, when you give her your number, either of 2 things will happen: she calls you (ie. she's interested in talking to you again) or she doesn't. And he doesn't give a shit if she doesn't call. Her loss, so to speak. In his case, 99% of all the chicks call back. I thought about it, and he has a point. I mean you're really portraying yourself as the prize. Why should we, men, always have to make the move? I mean we made the first move when we approached her. Now it's the women's turn to respond. Why should we follow them? Thoughts?