I been dating my gf for a year and three months and love her alot and i care about her, but it all seems its going to fast. I dont know why its getting to me now but it has. Alot of it has to do with when she starts talking about the futre and her plans with me. I feel the same way but i want to concentrate on the now and my oppurtunities. It feels like were already engaged. Im only 21 yo and a college athlete and i feel like ive got alot of living to do. I really do see myself having a future with this girl, but i dont want it to be "all planned out". She planning on going to the college with to the college im transferring to and i just dont know about it. What should i do to "un-serious" things. I dont want to lose her but i want some more freedom.