I'm looking for a dildo for the gf. I'm starting to go out of town a lot and want something that is very realistic. I'm not sure I want to go with any of those 'cock molds' where I put my cock in a mold, but rather a toy that is EXTREMELY real feeling. Most of the stuff we/she has is hard plastic and not very real looking or feeling (yes, perhaps I've tried it ) And while on the subject, I would like something we could share... but like I said, very real feeling... I would like a 3 some, but wouldn't have the nerve. So something that would feel real for me too Anyway, what should I go looking for? Cyberskin? Something else? Any sites would be great. And while I have your ear; I'm looking for a fleshlight for me. I see fleshlights.com has a 3 for 2 sale. I'm thinking about getting the anus, vag, and mouth, and with the anus getting the ultra tight (1/4 inch) insert. And then the reg. (3/4 inch) for the vag, but for the mouth I'm not sure what I want. Any suggestions? Also, would the 1/4 inch be too tight? I know, I have a tall order here so any help would be great.