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  1. bill341

    bill341 New Member

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    Hey guys this is one of my first posts so bear with me. So I have been seeing this girl for about two months and I decieded to ask her out. When I did she acted like she was happy and that was what she wanted. Only four days later she said she wasn't ready for a commitment. She said she still wanted to hang out but didn't want to be anyone's. I said I wouldn't feel right if she was getting with other people and she said the same. Her excuse was that she had a boyfriend for 4 years of high school and now that she is in college she dosen't want to be with anyone. I was just wondering what your thoughts are on this.
     
  2. Improvolone

    Improvolone New Member

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    She needs time to find herself.
    She was in a relationship for ALL of highschool. She needs to be single for a little bit.

    Basicly... exactly what she is telling you. So take it slow.
     
  3. RockChick

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    my thought on this is: move on, she doesnt want a bf.

    I'd say consider yourself lucky... she is in college... its party time etc.
    just look thru the vag and read all the threads about guys saying they got dumped by their gf's cos they (the gf's) went to college...
     
  4. bill341

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    thanks for the info i find when i find someone i like i tend to really pursue her
     
  5. Improvolone

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    Just be her friend.
    If something happens, it will.
     
  6. bill341

    bill341 New Member

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    Thats the thing we hook up all of the time so it is kind of confusing me. I mean I trust her and know that she is not a slut but I just can't seem to figure out what she wants
     
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    seems genuine. most people don't realize what relationships are until they are in them. find someone else
     
  8. Improvolone

    Improvolone New Member

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    If you like her, why bother finding someone else?
     

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