So a girl I hung out with a lot at work is friends with this other chick at work who is married with a 7month old daughter. I started hanging out with her only b/c she hung out with my good friend. Well we went to lunch together a lot at work and starting talking quite a bit. I never intended on anything more simply b/c she's married with a child but things just keep clicking. She told me how she only got married b/c her friends were getting married and she had been with her now husband for 4 years and it just seemed like the right thing to do. (you'd really have to know this girl to understand. she didn't marry him b/c marriage was the cool thing to do but she thought since they had been together so long that it was right) Well apparently she hasn't been happy with him for a few years now. They had a child and she practically had to beg him to have sex with her to have the child. He likes to drink and he takes after his alcoholic father pretty well. She tells me he works a lot but the days he does get off, he doesn't want to spend that time with her or the baby. He'd rather be with his friends. Well I seem to be the one that she always complains to about him. But now we've been talking a lot more and she keeps telling me how she can't stop thinking about me and that she's never been that way with a guy. Though she will not hang out with me outside of work b/c that's not right. Which is 100% understandable. I have no problem with that. But it seems like we have so much in common that it's scary. I'm not really sure what to do here. I mean she's talking about leaving her husband but I'm not sure if I should pursue if she does or not. I know what we are doing is probably wrong since we talk a lot outside of work. But we've never done anything more. Any advice here OT? Sorry for the long winded and really jumbled thread.