Need some crazy girl insight

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  1. Memopad

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    So i met this girl at a party last fall 500 miles away at a sailing regatta party (college teams travel all over and meet up), didn't really do anything besides small talk at the party. Girl facebooks me a day later or so... fast forward a couple of months and i move back home to the same town this girl is going to school at, she sends me her phone # and tells me to call her when i get into town :bowdown::naughty:.

    We meet up for a lunch date and go out for drinks a couple of times, and after the 2nd date start to make out and whatnot. The next week is christmas break and she goes home for a month and we talk on the phone once in a while, everyting seems great.

    This week she came back home, i went over to her place and we just layed in bed and cuddled and talked for a bit, she tells me i'm the greatest guy ever, etc etc :wiggle: Hang out one more time a couple of days later, and then yesterday she sends me a text saying "i'm nervous as to where we're going, i was really hoping we could just be friends." :coolugh:

    I've never seen such a total 180 reversal from anyone. From jumping wanting to cuddle on the couch watching t.v. telling me i'm a great guy and kissing to this shit. Only hint something was up was her being really hard to get in touch with this week and not wanting to go out to do anything, just staying at her apt. :hsd:
    I'm not crushed by any means, a bit bummed out as i was just starting to really like this girl. But mostly i'm just confused as hell. Any of you ladies care to share knowledge of the female psyche?

    p.s. i'm 24 she's 21. She's slightly more mature than other girls her age i've dated, but damn. Couple of months ago i went out with a 27-28 year old doctor and it was a fucking revelation, maturity > *
     
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    just_another_on New Member

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    Sounds like she has someone else :o
     
  3. Memopad

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    Prolly met some dude in her new classes this week. FUUUUUuuuuu

    I'm more of a catch than 99% of this town anyway, good riddance.
     
  4. Vysion

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    At least you found out now rather than 6 months after dating her... :wtc:
     
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    Women are attention whores and flakes... and when they suck everything from you that they need and are done with you they tear your heart out and kick your ass to the curb without regret or remorse.
     
  6. peoplescar

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    she's 21, she's doing whatever she wants without regard for other people.

    and i agree with Maturity > *

    fml
     
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    So why you so worried about this one?

    Go get your dick wet nga :h5:
     
  8. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    She's 21, move on.
     
  9. OniMinion

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    Yup, move on. She's trying to "be nice" to you by not telling you the truth... Eh... So damn typical.
     
  10. Memopad

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    I really want to ask her what the deal is, i'm super curious :rofl:

    I've been single for 4 years, i'm ready to move on to greener pastures.
     
  11. Memopad

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    I'm in a small town in the middle of nowhere. Most girls are here because of the university and leave town as soon as the graduate. SOOOO hard to find anyone my age or older up here. Sucks because i love this area (skiing, biking, climbing, sailings, etc) but the relationship material is slim pickins.
     
  12. peoplescar

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    get a mature college girl who knows what she wants. a lot of people fall in love with the area around their school and tend to stay there. chin up bro.
     
  13. Vysion

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    :rofl: Is this a joke bro? No woman 'knows what she wants'... :rofl:
     
  14. Gogoplata

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    bitter, imo
     
  15. Vysion

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    Damn right I'm bitter... I just had my heart ripped out twice in a month for no reason at all.
     
  16. Memopad

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    Yeah, you're right. Damn i'm such a pessimist!
     
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    :hug:

    Sucks man. I've been shot down twice in the past 6 weeks myself, no heart crushing inolved though.
     
  18. Gogoplata

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    Did you just play the Victim Card? :squint:

    You are supposed to be cheering, celebrating and finding skanks to ride your Salami Subway for the next 2-3 months.
     
  19. peoplescar

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    this isn't the main where women are all whore and morons. some women do know what they want. not all of them are mature about it.
     
  20. Vysion

    Vysion New Member

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    I wasn't shot down. I can handle being shot down. I was dumped twice by the same girl that I fell in love with this summer.

    But I don't care anymore because I hate everything about her now. :squint:
     
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    there you go. solution acquired
     
  22. antihero

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    lol... here we go again :rofl:

    for guys that always think its another guy... ever wonder if you could compete and win if you stepped up?
     
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    :mamoru:


    I like knowing I > someone else, personally, so i :love: 'competition'
     
  24. CorpseStreet

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    I can say that I don't yet completely know what I want so I try not to rule anything out. Women who don't know what they want but act like they do annoy me.
     
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    Exactly. If a woman is upfront about not knowing it, that's OK. But when they're all "OMG I want to marry you LULZOK??!!!" and then "Oh, just kidding. I banged another dude and I think I want to be single" THAT pisses me off
     

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