need some advise from the girls....

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  1. thevirginlauren

    thevirginlauren New Member

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    So, me and my fiance just moved into a new apartment and the people around are younger with little kids, or kids on the way. I like it here. so, about me... I am a sexual being when it comes to my fiance... i am little freaky and completely open to new things. (atleast once).

    I am 8 months pregnant and finally have enough energy and want to have sex all the time.
    well, my fiance is talkative to the neighbors and such... which is good. he was talking to the lady upstairs and a guy 2 floors up (computer guy)......

    computer guy: so, my new neighbors under me are complaining about me and my wife walking to hard... when all i do is just walk normally.

    my fiance: yeah, well me and my girl hear your kids running around in the afternoon. (directed toward lady upstairs)

    lady upstairs: (directed toward my fiance) yeah, well me, the people beind you and next to you, all hear you and your girl F**kin all the time.


    well, my fiance told me this and i was shocked that people hear me... me mostly because i know he loves it when i voice how good it feels. He isn't bothered by it at all and might actually like it more now that he knows people hear us.
    I don't like being the one that people hear. if i heard my neighbors that wouldn't bother me because i have sex too... but i have never heard anyone or anything that might be my neighbors having sex.

    have any of you heard your neighbors doing it? does it bother you as it does me? i know the guys probably don't mind at all... but what about the girls? and i just thinking to much into things and shouldn't worry about it?
     
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    That's what happen when you live in an apartment. If people don't want to hear their neighbors buy a house in the sticks.
     
  3. THoC

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    im not a lady but ill throw my opnion out there.

    while i am not bothered by the idea of having sex noise of any kind that can disturb me sleeping would.

    i have no idea when you guys are fucking.

    also, the neighbors have kids. they probably do not feel like explaining to them what the noise is.

    finally..... you live in an apt. as much as it sucks you have to respect the people around you.
    once you get your own place then you can scream all you want.
     
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    Thats the only downside with apartment complexes and shit of that nature. Paper thin walls = :(. My cousin can't even :420: in his house cause he's scared the hallways will reek of weed.
     
  5. thevirginlauren

    thevirginlauren New Member

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    yeah, that is what i was thinking... people around here are nice and i don't want to cause problems. we don't scream... just moaning and usually it is in the middle of the day because my fiance works 12 hour shifts and has to wake up at 4 am so we go to sleep early enough.
     
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    since its the middle of the day i would not care. id probably poke fun of how i hear you two but it would not bother me one bit.

    then again... im a very laid back and understanding person. even more important i dont have kids.
     
  7. JoJoBee

    JoJoBee Hanging out with my chicks! OT Supporter

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    advice.... ok, now i can read what you posted... :mamoru:
     
  8. THoC

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    thats what i love about the townhouse i bought. i was weary of buying one bc i LOVE music and i LOVE loud music even more.

    the way the builder made it only 3 townhomes share a building and of those 3 each one shares only one wall.

    mine happens to be the kitchen nook so i just stay away from doing any loud activities there haha
     
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    JoJoBee Hanging out with my chicks! OT Supporter

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    i guess cuz i am a sexual being as well, i really wouldn't mind it. in fact, i would probably be aroused by it and would want to do a competition :mamoru:

    the only thing that bothers me about this is the kiddo situation... it is respectful to tone it down some so that they don't hear it. do you have children or just the baby on the way will be your first??? if you have children, what would you think about them hearing that stuff and asking questions... ask yourself that.
     
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    if your neighbors were doing something that annoyed you, would you want them to at least try to tone it down?

    its just about respect. not saying you should have to completely change the way you have sex, but be aware of those around you. you would want them to do the same things for you if you were complaining about a noise they were making

    make sure windows are closed, make sure doors are closed, etc.
     
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    yeah, all of your opinions are just what i was thinking. they didn't seem to be bothered since it was just brought up in random conversation... but i know that i don't want to make it a problem.
     
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    JoJoBee Hanging out with my chicks! OT Supporter

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    at least you didn't get a random letter posted to your door when living in a house about sexual noise complaints :mamoru:
     
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    wanna hear a good one.

    when i lived in an apt my gf rented the garage across the street as her studio (she's a photographer).

    she had a couple of suicidegirls over for some shoots and they would walk from the apt to the garage in their outfits.

    a few days later i get a call from the complex asking me if im shooting porn in my garage bc one of my neighbors thinks we are. lol

    i was laughing so hard and the poor complex manager was so uncomfortable telling me the complaint it made it even funnier for me.
     
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    JoJoBee Hanging out with my chicks! OT Supporter

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    :rofl::rofl::rofl::rofl::bowdown:
     
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    :werd:

    Or turn on some music decently loud when you have sex. I've had to do that numerous times to drown out the sex noise to roommates and I'm sure neighbors as well. It helps.
     
  16. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    :rofl: I hear my upstairs neighbors fucking all the god damn time and they have 4 kids.

    That's apartment living though. I cant wait until we move into our house next month, no more neighbor bullshit. Just deal with it :dunno:
     
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    how good is their sex?
     
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    i can hear our neighbors... but most of the time they are fighting, not fucking
     
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    I will have to play some music stuff just to make sure they don't hear anything. glad we haven't gotten a formal complaint and i don't want it to get that far.
     
  20. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    Sounds pretty good actually. More frequent then I imagined parents of 4 having.
     
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    :rofl:
     
  22. Lucky Penny

    Lucky Penny Mr. cut me some slack cause I don't wanna go back,

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    at your mom's house. be back later.
    :roflw:

    Besides, they can stfu. You're 8 months pregnant- it's one of the perks of pregnancy; doing whatever the fuck you want. :rofl: Enjoy it while it lasts.
     
  23. Deborah

    Deborah Seeing is believing, but I don't want to know.

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    I like to be able to listen, then I masturbate to it or tell my guy if he doesn't fuck me I will go join the neighbors :naughty:
     
  24. Deborah

    Deborah Seeing is believing, but I don't want to know.

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    lol, that's ok. But I have way more creepier things in my mind that I never thought this would be considered creepy:noes:
     
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    Uh no. Sex is a normal natural part of life. If the neighbors can't handle people having sex a few times a week then they should grow up.

    Now if it's a few times a night loud enough for the whole building to hear... yeah sure, that's an issue.
     

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