Need some advice v.2girls

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  1. knucks

    knucks Active Member

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    So there are 2 girls I'm seeing/interested in.

    I like girl1 more than girl2.
    Girl 1 was busy last night, said maybe this weekend, I told her to contact me today, she said she would, but has not yet.

    I don't want to make plans with girl2 until I know girl1 is no-go for the night.

    Should I just wait til a certain time and just call girl2? Should I contact girl1 to see if we're having plans, and if not, go to girl2?

    I can see both sides of the argument. I want to just contact girl1 and find out, but I don't know :dunno:

    Help me Vag
     
  2. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    What kind of "plans" would you be having with either of these girls?
     
  3. knucks

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    Probably something stereotypically college like going to some house party. Either a friends or their friends or whatever
     
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    I would wait and if you don't hear from girl1, make last-minute plans with girl2
     
  5. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    That's what I figured. I ask because it's only 7 and you know no one goes out until at least 9 anyway. Wait and see until then and if Girl 1 hasn't called call Girl 2 :dunno:
     
  6. Alaya

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    It's still pretty early, give girl 1 a little more time to contact you. Especially since you're on "college time," I'm sure girl 2 wouldn't even think a thing of it if you called her pretty late to go to a party or something.
     
  7. knucks

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    Very true.

    I guess it's just that I want to see girl1..if I see girl2, that's cool, but I am not as invested in her...

    but what I'm seeing you say is that no matter what I shouldn't contact girl1?
     
  8. Alaya

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    When did you last talk to her/see her? How long have you been "seeing each other?"
     
  9. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    Nope. Not tonight at least. You put the ball in her court and now you have to wait but appear as if you are not waiting.
     
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  10. knucks

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    I last saw girl1 on Tuesday. I last texted her yesterday evening.
    We've been on 2 dates. 1 back in early December, 1 this past Tuesday.
     
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    Wouldn't the ball be in her court in this scenario?
     
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    :werd: My initial reaction is not to contact her today at all. I don't see a problem with it tomorrow though.
     
  13. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    So in the text you told her to call you today? And she responded that she would? If so, mistake.
     
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  15. Alaya

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    Yeah it is, next time instead of having her contact you by today, when she said she might be free this weekend keep it in your court, say something like "Cool, I'll call you friday evening."
     
  16. knucks

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    Yeah I know. I hate waiting on girls in that sense...

    On one hand it's like a "test" to see if they follow through, on the other I'd rather be in control and right now I am not.
     
  17. Alaya

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    Keep in mind it's relatively early still for a weekend evening on college time.
     
  18. knucks

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    Yeah I know, I just have nothing to do (no homework or anything, school just started) so I'm all anxious.
    I'll go toke or something.
     
  19. giz

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    don't you hate times like this when you realize the mistake you made? :rofl:
     
  20. Alaya

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    Yeah, just go do something to keep yourself busy :hsd:
     
  21. knucks

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    haha yeah it sucks :rofl:
     
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    i would invite the girl you like the most first and if she isn't available then book the date with the other girl
     
  23. knucks

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    Girl1 told me she was going out with her friends, asked me if I was going out as well. I asked her if we were gonna meet up, she said 'Hopefully'

    I ran into her at a party, she gave me a big hug, said she was about to leave for a friend's bday party, gave me a kiss, and left.

    I was kind of bummed for some reason, but I guess I shouldn't be.
    I wish I could just be apathetic at times...
     
  24. Two toys

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    agreed on wishing I could be more apathetic at times..


    but atleast you didnt bring girl 2 to the party you met girl 1 at...
     
  25. knucks

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    :rofl:
    so true, that would've made things interesting
     

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