So, to start I began dating this girl in June. We were both really into each other, and thing got hot an heavy fast. We both claimed love for each other and everything was great. Good sex, we get along with each others friends and family, able to talk about everything. I really felt comfortable and happy around her. Granted we were still in the "honeymoon" stage of a relationship, but i do know what love feels like for me, and it was there. Toward the end of August she became a little distant and decided to break it off. She is a single mom who doesn't get any support from the father, and was in the midst of moving to new apartment. I was hurt for sure, but when she put it into perspective, I understood. She has to take care of her son, and pay all of her bills etc, and still yet deal with her ex when her son goes to visit. With all that in mind she said she couldn't give me the attention i deserved and it was not fair to me etc. She also felt emotionally exhausted. Her Mom also moved out of state int his time span so she had a lot going on. Excuses aside, i soldiered on and was sad, but doing OK. I got a text from her maybe 3 weeks ago. She needed help with her car (I'm a mechanic) and really didn't have any one else to turn to. After paying 100 dollars in towing there wasn't much extra for repairs. I honestly did not think it would be a big deal, but when I saw her my heart completely sank. my feelings were deeper than I originally thought to say the least. I emailed her and told her that I still had feelings etc. and she elaborated on why she had to break it off. semi-long story aside my question is this. I have been on a couple dates since the car thing went down, and I have met a girl that is really cool. My feelings for my ex are still heavily on my mind. Is it wrong to try a new relationship when I know my head wont be in the game all the way? My second question I already know the answer to, but should I contact my ex one last time? we have only spoke the once when she needed some help. I haven't drunk dialed her or anything. I would put the brakes on everything to be with her thank everyone for any help.