Best friend and I have been freinds for 8 years. We never argued, we were pretty much alike so i guess since we're both laid back, we didn't really make a big deal out of any disagreements or whatever. We do not live in the same state. She went through some traumatic things that she kind of told me about. All of her friends locally have left her and she's having a rough time. I try to be there for her by listening. I tell her that I don't understand completely what she's been through. I tell her that I can tell her about my personal issues that were somewhat similar and how I dealt with them and if they help her- cool, if they don't- that's cool too. I always make sure to tell her that I don't want to tell her what to do. I just want to make sure she knows that I know where she's coming from sometimes. She went through some abusive things with her boyfriend-which I can nver understand, but her issues wth her friends are all things that I have dealt with. Similar situations and whatnot. She snaps at me about eerything, even when we aren;t talking about her problems. I told her how I love dogs and how it's easy for me to get along with them and she, a cat person, felt like I was attacking her. I looked at that conversation ten times and did not find anything i sai that could have been offensive in any way. She snaps at me constantly for little things like that, she feels like I am making her do things, but all I do is tell her situations i've been in and what i've done. I tell her that it may or may not work for her, but she still thinks i'm being mean. She snaps at me and says hurtful things towards me. She made a nasty comment about how I'll just end up marrying my boyfriend and being a stay at home mom. But in all the years that we've been friends, all I do is express to her how I NEVER want to be that. Lately I made a comment on her new photo on MySpace and said "you're so milky lol"- her skin looked milky and white. I always thought having milky skin was a GOOD thing. It was just a stupid comment and she instantly texted me something along the lines of "i always feel like your comments to me are unvieled insults" All I ever do is compliment her and try to bring up her self esteem. Now she hasn't talked to me for days, ignores my texts and phone calls, and does that stupid girl shit where she talks about you in a survey or online, but doesn;t use your name, but makes sure you know who it is. I don't know what to do. I'm actually upset that she thinks her best friend is being mean to her. Why would I be mean, i'm your fucking friend. How does this make sense? women. any advice?