Quick Background: no tattoo, no other piercings than my ears, Always wanting a tattoo, but very permanent.. so wont get that for a while. Always wanted a piercing.. I went as far as going into the shop to have my eyebrow pierced, but left(was worried about it hindering my employment possiblities).. I really wanted my tongue done.. but alot of people said it wouldnt suit my small mouth, plus u cant see it. well Now Im thinking of getting a madonna or monroe, what ever you call it.. But 1: I dont know it it will suit me 2: How long does it look new, as Im going on holiday in a months time and I want it to look good. 3:If it'll heal ok.. because I know in a few yrs time I could change my mind and want to not have it anymore... will it leave a big scare. 4: I've noticed Alot of people now with this, its this like a craze for some people.. I dont wanna have it if everyone else does, ya know Omg, I'm so sorry.. I DIDNT mean for this post to be sooo long.. help if you can thanks..