SRS Need help with this girl!!!! Don't know how to tell her!

Discussion in 'On Topic' started by TurboBansheeKid, Sep 12, 2006.

  1. TurboBansheeKid

    TurboBansheeKid New Member

    Joined:
    Sep 11, 2006
    Messages:
    30
    Likes Received:
    0
    Location:
    I live in South Florida
    Ok I have been friend's with this girl Kaitlyn for about a year now and I really like her and care for her, but have never told her how I really feel about her. I love her with all my heart and would do anything for her. We both are in 11th grade and I am 17 and she 16 going on 17. She likes the bad boys in and out of school and they keep harting her for once i wish i could just tell her how i feel!!!!! She has sleep in my bed with me twice and i have sleeped in her bed with her but I was to scared to make a move! Is that a good sign that she sleeped with me? or what? I have never had sex before and she has had sex should i be going after her in the long run or not? what should i say to her next time i talk to her? If you have anymore questions about me or her I will answer them. Thank you for helping!
     
  2. kilamasta

    kilamasta New Member

    Joined:
    Aug 14, 2006
    Messages:
    108
    Likes Received:
    0
  3. kilamasta

    kilamasta New Member

    Joined:
    Aug 14, 2006
    Messages:
    108
    Likes Received:
    0
    You basically have no chances to do anything with her.

    And if you go the sissy( real sorry :dunno: ) way (I.E. Telling her how you feel), you will lose the friendship you got with her.

    Oh man I feel so sorry for you... same thing happened to me a while ( well 2 years) ago. Don't do it seriously and realise what you are [ the site ^ ], accept it, and start working.
     
    Last edited: Sep 12, 2006
  4. TurboBansheeKid

    TurboBansheeKid New Member

    Joined:
    Sep 11, 2006
    Messages:
    30
    Likes Received:
    0
    Location:
    I live in South Florida
    Dam i knew i should have talked to her along time ago! I want a girl friend!!!!
    I will post some pic's of me and what I do, ok maybe I can change some thing about me!
     
  5. Jester

    Jester OT Supporter

    Joined:
    Oct 30, 2004
    Messages:
    106,286
    Likes Received:
    29
    Location:
    Chiburbia
    Download the ebook called "Double Your Dating" and stop talking to this girl.
     
  6. TurboBansheeKid

    TurboBansheeKid New Member

    Joined:
    Sep 11, 2006
    Messages:
    30
    Likes Received:
    0
    Location:
    I live in South Florida
    where can i find this?
     
  7. kilamasta

    kilamasta New Member

    Joined:
    Aug 14, 2006
    Messages:
    108
    Likes Received:
    0
    Seriously , OMG!!!11!!11 ELEVENTY!

    Did you check www.fastseduction.com ? It is a nice start, and the author of double your dating post a lot of info on it.
     
  8. TurboBansheeKid

    TurboBansheeKid New Member

    Joined:
    Sep 11, 2006
    Messages:
    30
    Likes Received:
    0
    Location:
    I live in South Florida
    LOL i am on there right now reading stuff!!!!!! thank you!
     
  9. TurboBansheeKid

    TurboBansheeKid New Member

    Joined:
    Sep 11, 2006
    Messages:
    30
    Likes Received:
    0
    Location:
    I live in South Florida
  10. SovietRussia

    SovietRussia What? You pooped in the refrigerator? OT Supporter

    Joined:
    Aug 26, 2004
    Messages:
    21,387
    Likes Received:
    0
    Location:
    madison
  11. TurboBansheeKid

    TurboBansheeKid New Member

    Joined:
    Sep 11, 2006
    Messages:
    30
    Likes Received:
    0
    Location:
    I live in South Florida
    thanks, sorry i am not the greatest speller! you will learn that as I post more and more, lol
     
  12. crazy15

    crazy15 New Member

    Joined:
    Feb 26, 2005
    Messages:
    2,897
    Likes Received:
    0
    Location:
    YAY AREA & UCSB
    friend zoned. tell her how u feel, nothing to lose. get drunk with her next time u guys sleep together and make a move.
     
  13. TurboBansheeKid

    TurboBansheeKid New Member

    Joined:
    Sep 11, 2006
    Messages:
    30
    Likes Received:
    0
    Location:
    I live in South Florida
    Most of the times she has slepted with me she was drunk.lol
     
  14. BlazinBlazer Guy

    BlazinBlazer Guy Witness to The De-Evolution of Mankind.

    Joined:
    Jul 24, 2002
    Messages:
    18,783
    Likes Received:
    0
    Location:
    Lansing, MI USA
    Then worry about going to class, studying, and learning FIRST. You're young... the chances this crush you have will last are slim to none. Your education, however, will last you a lifetime.
     
  15. TurboBansheeKid

    TurboBansheeKid New Member

    Joined:
    Sep 11, 2006
    Messages:
    30
    Likes Received:
    0
    Location:
    I live in South Florida
    Ok thanks Guys!!!
     
  16. shiyan

    shiyan grabbing titties in amusement parks OT Supporter

    Joined:
    Oct 22, 2003
    Messages:
    80,489
    Likes Received:
    0
    Location:
    Belgium
    it seems like you have no chance because she slept in your bed expecting you never to make a move

    you're deeply entrenched in her friend zone

    [​IMG]
     
    Last edited: Sep 12, 2006
  17. Isamu

    Isamu New Member

    Joined:
    Aug 14, 2005
    Messages:
    1,804
    Likes Received:
    0
    Location:
    Freezin's the reason
    :bowdown: :rofl: :rofl: :rofl:
     
  18. Zenmang

    Zenmang New Member

    Joined:
    Jul 31, 2006
    Messages:
    317
    Likes Received:
    0
    Location:
    Edmonton
    When I was that your age I was similar situation.

    I knew the girl for a couple years (lets call her Jane) but I was always more interested in her friend (I'll call this one Emma).
    There was way too much personal drama with Emma so I never hooked up with her.

    Instead my friendship with Jane blossomed and we got to know each other very well. I would sleep over at her place all the time. I really didn't expect anything else, I was still a virgin and she knew my mind was still on Emma.

    I never slept in Jane's bed. I would always sleep on her couch when i slept over and I slept over a lot.

    Long story short Jane wanted much more.
    One night she ask me to join her in bed. Since I was a virgin, I really didn't catch on. I mean it was a day bed (single sized matteress if not smaller), it would not have been a comfortable sleep. (ya ya i'm dumb shhhuuush everyone!!!)

    Well it escalated into hurt feelings with Jane, she thought that I didn't think she was good enuff (trust me she was pretty hawt looking girl and sorry ot'ers I don't have a pic it was a long time ago).
    Well fuck a goat!!! it became an argument and the friendship was never the same again.

    Thinking about all that and thinking about your situation, you will regret not asking or at least throwing hints and maybe letting it blossom into something more.

    Here's a little something for you to think about.
    I have never regreted having sex with women I had sex with.
    I however do regret not having sex with some women I could've had sex with.

    Just looking back @ my Jane scenario it would have been a great relationship and I would have loved to lose my virginity to her.
     
  19. TurboBansheeKid

    TurboBansheeKid New Member

    Joined:
    Sep 11, 2006
    Messages:
    30
    Likes Received:
    0
    Location:
    I live in South Florida
    Thank you, liked the story!
     
  20. wtfmates

    wtfmates New Member

    Joined:
    Jan 8, 2005
    Messages:
    7,617
    Likes Received:
    0
    Location:
    Coral Springs, FL
    I was BEST friends with my girlfriend for 7 months before we finally told each other how we felt. You're not completely fucked. W both liked each other when we met, but both of us thought that the other didn't have the same feelings, so neither of us said anything. WE went everywhere with each other and talked for hours every day. She got a boyfriend. It tore me up inside. But she was still always with me and talking to me instead of him. Eventually we both told each other how we felt, she dumped her boyfriend after a month, and we've been together for quite a while now. She told me that every time she came over to my house and layed down in my bed in her undergarments, she was hoping so bad that I would make a move, but I didn't. She didn't. Well, anyways, that doesn't matter, cause we're together. As I said, not completely hopeless. If you guys are as good friends as you say you are, your friend ship won't come to a screeching halt if you tell her how you feel. If it does, it might be for the better. You might be able to get over her.
     

Share This Page